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Podcast title Intellectual Erection
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Description This podcast is about sex positivity, kink, bdsm, and polyamory. The interviews are with people in these communities and we discuss everything from the fun, to the not so fun, to the politics, and matters of the heart.
Updated Mon, 18 Feb 2019 16:39:55 +0000
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Episodes

1. Jacqui Childs, Unboxed, Untamed, and Uncensored (pt. 2 of 2)
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Description: This is part 2 of the interview with Jacqui Childs, we continue from our previous discussion and dive into the darkness of her past (CW: rape, suicidal ideation) where you get to hear the human side of a brand called Jacqui Childs…but what happens when the human side feeds the trolls, the creepers, the fanatics? We talk about the ups and downs of social media, microdosing, and overcoming the past. In part two of the interview we continue where we left off last time, just about to get into Jacqui’s unsettling story of rape and how it affected her trajectory as a person. She then shifts gears to discuss microdosing on mushrooms and cannabis as a therapeutic alternative to antidepressants, and an overall therapy for her Chron’s disease, depression, anxiety, and the residual anger and hate from her past, to the person she is today, having learned empathy, forgiveness, and good sex. Finally, Jacqui talks about what it’s like being a social media influencer and living as a brand, dealing with safety concerns, death threats, and creepy fans who obsess over her in severely unhealthy ways. Find Jacqui Childs on: FB: @jacquichildsmodel IG: @jacquichilds Twitter: @JacquiChilds Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection

2. Jacqui Childs, Unboxed, Untamed, and Uncensored (pt. 1 of 2)
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Description: On this episode I speak with Jacqui Childs—social media influencer, cannabis activist, model, naked news anchor, sex positive human, best-selling author, and an overall do-whatever-she-wants badass!You’re not even ready to hear this episode…grab a pipe and a drink, find your favourite chair, and prepare to have your mind blown. This is only part one of a two part interview, so get ready for a listenathon, an auditorgy, an eargasm that will leave you wanting more, you insatiable pervs. Jacqui Childs takes us on a rambling rampage of fun, laughs, and curiosities about her multifarious life, like how she learned to get sexual attention as a child by putting balloons under her shirt, to stripping, modeling, and being discovered by playboy photographer David Mecey. Jacqui opens up about her family life, marriage, cheating, divorce, parental alienation, to rediscovering her authentic self at the age of 39 in a new non-monogamous relationship, embracing sex positivity, living the swinger life, working as an anchor on Naked News, and how these things affect her role as a mother. She realized she hates being boxed in, restricted, controlled, so she took control of her life, her body, and her sexuality to slay on social media as an influencer with over 2 million followers. Find Jacqui Childs on: FB: @jacquichildsmodel IG: @jacquichilds Twitter: @JacquiChilds Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection

3. Erin Pim without Bed Posts
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Description: On this episode I speak with fellow Podcaster Erin Pim of The Bed Post Podcast and Bed Post Sex Show about Catholic schoolgirl shame, Barbie doll menstruation humiliation, slut therapy, Pro Domme’ing wrist deep in butts, and double fisting, because…why not? Erin digs deep into her childhood sex shame and early dom/sub dynamics with Barbie, and needing to put Ken in his place. These experiences later blossomed into the wonderful sex positive, poly fam embracing, sweet-eyed-husband-having Erin Pim that you know and love. We go beyond her award winning podcast and stage show (3rd Friday of every month at the social capital theatre,) her erotica writing, and her lap dance classes at Oasis Aqualounge (2nd Friday of every month), to talk about her most recent exploits into Pro Domme’ing at the Ritual Chamber. Erin gives us wrist deep details of fisting, topping subs, and a lesson on some much-needed Domme etiquette and soliciting rules. Just listen and say “Yes Mistress!” Find Erin Pim at: Pro Domme: theritualchamber.ca/lady-pim IG: @thebedpostshow IG and Twitter: @theladypim1 Podcast: The Bed Post Podcast FB: Bedposterotica Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.patreon.com/intellectualerection

4. Cecilia Morrell Makes a Porno
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Description: On this episode I speak with Cecilia Morrell, a young and determined woman who embraces sex positivity in so many forms, from doing web camming, modelling, naked news, working at a sex club, and of course, as the title states, doing porn. Cecilia discusses her very early introduction into the sex positive communities, attending Oasis Aqualounge on her 19th birthday to have her first drink at a sex club, which she eventually ended up working at as an Aquaflirt. She discusses the frustrations of coming from a conservative family and small town where anything outside monogamous heteronormativity was not only shamed but often violently assaulted, leading her to embrace her body, sexuality, and sensuality to promote sex positivity for herself and be an example to others who may be feeling marginalized, oppressed, harassed, and invisible. Cecilia’s sex work includes webcam modelling on MyFreeCams and Chaturbate, nude modelling, working on Naked News, and creating pornography with her partner as a duo called The Khaleidos. Ultimately, Cecilia talks about her experiences, her kinks and fetishes, identifying as a Little, embracing her body, and her future plans to help create a charity for people with Autism. Find Cecilia Morrell on: Instagram: @CeciliaMorrellOfficial Twitter: @CeciliaMorrell ManyVids: CeciliaMorrell.manyvids.com PornHub: pornhub.com/users/TheKhaleidos Link for coinage of Noetisexual: https://medium.com/@neal_michon/an-alternative-to-sapiosexual-671dc1bdf86a Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/intellectual-erection

5. Luther on Race Play
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Description: On this episode I speak with Luther, a black man navigating the ups and downs of the sex positive communities with a specific focus on his experiences with race play, the effects it has had on his identity, feelings of self-worth, and notions of being accepted as a person as opposed to a fetish. Luther talks about his introduction to the sex positive communities, having been taken to a swingers resort in Cancun, where his first experiences of being a bull for couples began. He opens up about his darker experiences thereafter where some couples began engaging him in nonconsensual race play, dropping the n-bomb on him during sex, fetishizing and tokenizing him, leaving him feeling ultimately degraded. Luther discusses the complex feelings of being disempowered and used as a dispensable and replaceable fetish object during vulnerable moments of intimacy. He examines how racism has disrupted his sense of identity as a person, and his attempts to regain his identity though interactions with good people, good experiences, and explorations of pleasure in the sex positive communities. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/intellectual-erection

6. Brett Nails on Being an Unapologetic Slut
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Description: On this episode I speak with Brett Nails, a former escort, webcam model, custom video producer, and overall gratuitous slut who shares his multifarious and exciting experiences without compromise, guilt, shame, or reservations. Brett talks frankly about his early sexual experiences, the kinks and fetishes that emerged throughout his budding sexuality, and how those experiences shaped the variety of interests he has pursued. He discusses having been a blunt slut in early adulthood, moving into escorting, smoking fetish, bimbo play, and domination. Then, later on discovering his submissive side through a relationship with a fem domme who introduced him to forced feminization (or sissification), anal play, anal stretching, and fisting. Finally, Brett identifies as a hard switch, willing to dominate or submit so long as the engagement with the person feels authentic and good, allowing him to safely and securely explore his wild and sexy kinks and fetishes. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-1545063807-66c8fa2c05a54dbf&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

7. Elva on Destroying and Recreating the Self Through Sex
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Description: On this episode I speak with Elva, who shares her experiences of slowly emerging out of her shell from an environment of sex negativity and her need to destroy her former self in order to find authenticity and create the life she wants to live. Elva discusses having been brought up in a religious and cultural environment that made her feel ashamed about her desires, pushed her to conform, get married, only to finally come to a breaking point and force a change through affairs and infidelity, effectively destroying her past. She then began to explore her sexuality, relationships, sensuality, and the importance of meaningful relationships of love and sex inspired by Tantra. Elva talks about her cathartic experience coming into the sex positive communities and being part of a thruple with former Intellectual Erection guests Greg and Edith. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-1545063807-66c8fa2c05a54dbf&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

8. Hailey and Chris on Overcoming Adversity
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Description: On this episode I speak with Hailey and Christ, a couple who share their experiences of having come from very different backgrounds, ethnically, culturally, and geographically, and have endured different forms of adversity that have strengthened them and brought them together to share their joy of liberation and sex positivity. If you want to hear what strength over adversity sounds like, listen to Hailey’s story of overcoming cancer and thereafter using that experience to take charge of her body and identity and forge who she wanted to become. Listen to Chris’s story of growing up in a conservative-minded small town, being bullied and shamed to eventually leave for the big city and find a source of liberation and welcoming support in Hailey. Together Chris and Hailey found authenticity through each other, open mindedness, and loving support. They had differing experiences of adversity, but have both become strong, humbled, and loving humans as a result of their past, and now share a bond together that is open to navigating the sex positive communities. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-1545063807-66c8fa2c05a54dbf&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

9. Alice's Rabbit Hole
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Description: On this episode Alice takes us down her academic S&M rabbit hole where she discusses her work in women’s studies on the phenomenology of sadomasochism. Through the academic discussion we find incredible humour, playfulness, some seriousness, and even an uncompromising ethics. Alice discusses her academic writing and her thesis that the taboo of sadomasochism derives from the existence of latent sociopolitical power relations that are made visible through the exercise of S&M. She argues that the erotic lies at the core of these unequal power relations because of their danger, thus making them exciting to play out in our sexual fantasies and more so in our sexual lives. She also discusses notions of identity, consent, and polyamory in a very playful and humorous style that lightens up the seriousness of these dense and sensitive topics. Overall, we get a translation of some academic work in women’s studies focusing on S&M from a fun and bubbly human. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-1545063807-66c8fa2c05a54dbf&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

10. Amy and Rob on Polyamory and Sex Clubs
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Description: On this episode I speak with Amy and Rob, a polyamorous couple who work together in a sex club and have quite a few stories about navigating their relationships, how they were introduced into the sex positive communities, and the fun and messy parts of working in a sex club. Amy and Rob share their stories with us about being initiated into the sex positive communities through relationships with interesting and caring people they’ve met early on in their lives. They’ve been in the communities for over a decade, navigating fetish events, sex clubs, and poly relationships. They discuss relationship anarchy, their preferred form of polyamory, and what that means for them, their other partners, and their emotional bond. Finally, they share some hilarious stories from inside the bowels of the sex clubs that are certain to make you laugh, or cringe. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-154446152498-91a6034f6ae6453e&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

11. Kit Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Kit, a creative mixed bag of wonder, from being a daddy, a little, a dominatrix, kitty, web cam model, burlesque performer, masseuse, and spiritualist, to an overall fun and loving human who isn’t shy to talk about their multifarious identities and experiences. Kit opens up about some serious issues as well, like rape and mental health, and how these experiences have shaped who they have become, where they found strength in adversity, and how they’ve managed to overcome the suffering to be able to love, feel empowered, and share in sex positivity. Kit has a creative spirit that is brought to the forefront of their performativity in burlesque, stripping, drag shows, spectator sex, and web cam shows, as well as their most recent venture into spiritual meditation, tarot card readings, and massage. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

12. Ace "The Professional Tease" Allure Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Ace Allure, a professional tease, event coordinator and aquaflirt at Oasis Aqualounge, and burlesque performer, who opens up about how she became involved with the sex positive communities from an early age and what these experiences have helped her discover. Ace discusses her work and what she does at Oasis, the events she runs and participates in, and how her work helps fulfill the ever growing list of kinks she’s developed and discovered. She talks about her early sexual experiences and her very early interest in all things kinky and sexy, and how she began to realize that these experiences were accessible and eventually liberating. Ace is not shy about her love of all things pervy and her joy in exploring her body and celebrating pleasure in her weird and wonderfully sadistic ways. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

13. Ashley Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Ashley, a webcam model, rope bottom, and overall kinky and sex positive human, who talks about her experiences entering into kink and bondage, and mastering sexual self-control through edging and periodic abstinence. Ashley talks about her early desires to be bound and restrained and how these manifested into her life almost by chance. She discusses how she found out about rope bottoming and what the experience was like for her. She talks about her work as a webcam model, and examines her sexual practices, like edging and denial as a spiritual form of sexual self-mastery. Ashley also opens up about polyamory, what it means for her, and how it liberated her from a feeling of feeling constrained, so that she could seek her desired constraints in bondage. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast&rcid=r01-154264286504-143539d633e34007&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_w

14. Pandora Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Pandora, a book keeper and personal trainer who has spent much of her life denying her polyamorous inclinations for the sake of satisfying the norms she grew up with surrounding love, sex, and pleasure. Pandora opens up (punny!), about her experiences having been married and monogamous for most of her life, and having felt that she fundamentally denied her deeper desires to explore her sexuality, sex, pleasure, and the liberty to love multiple people. She examines the norms and pressures that prevented her from seeking multiple romantic relationships, which had for a long time been deeply rooted in her being. She talks about marriage and the performance of the good wife, while putting her own needs on the backburner, which have now become available once again after her divorce, and the challenges she now faces navigating the sex positive communities and poly relationships. Support Intellectual Erection at: www.gofundme.com/help-intellectua…erection-podcast

15. Lauren Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Lauren, an artist who crafts leatherwear, performs burlesque, is involved with the burning man community, and navigates the sometimes murky waters of poly, kink, and BDSM. Lauren talk to us about her work, what she enjoys most about creating, both in her workshop and on stage, and how her artistic life intersects with the sex positive communities. She examines the sometimes unpleasant aspects of navigating poly, kink, and BDSM, and opens up about how poor consent and dangerous practices in these communities can turn people away and make them hesitant to participate and to feel safe enjoying play. Support Intellectual Erection at: www.gofundme.com/help-intellectua…erection-podcast

16. Kat Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Kat, an academic and sex therapist who offers some insight into why sex positivity is important for her, and how it helped shape her career choice and relationships. Kat discusses her academic and personal interests in polyamory, kink, and BDSM, although given her profession as a sex therapist, she ends up mostly questioning me. We discuss the nuances of polyamory and how it plays out in relationships, how people turn to polyamory as an independent choice and how sometimes people may see it as a way to solve issues in their existing monogamous relationships. Overall we get some insight on sex and relationships from someone who works with couples and issues around sex for a living. Find Kat @ https://www.katkovatherapy.com/ Support Intellectual Erection at: www.gofundme.com/help-intellectua…erection-podcast

17. Dave and Gary Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Dave and Gary, two cis men who cohabitate and have navigated the sex positive communities together to learn new things about themselves. Dave and Gary speak about their entry into the sex positive communities, their experiences navigating different aspects of these communities and how they have learned, broadened their perspectives, and experimented to discover what felt right for them. We get Gary’s perspective as a monogamous person on his understanding of polyamory and the people he’s met in the community, what it has helped him learn, and why monogamy works for him. Dave opens up about his feelings, and how he discovered new sexual horizons by exploring and experimenting with an open mind. Together, they paint an interesting picture on what it’s like to enter the sex positive communities as cis men, and what can be learned by navigating these communities respectfully. Support Intellectual Erection at: www.gofundme.com/help-intellectua…erection-podcast

18. Lewis Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Lewis, a fellow academic and professor, who opens up about how he navigates polyamory, kink and bdsm, with some academic nuances. Lewis discusses how he discovered non-monogamy fairly late in his life despite a persisting notion that monogamy never truly captured his way of being, dating back to high school. He dives deeply into his experiences, feelings, and pivotal moments that have shaped the way he now understands relationships, sex, and most of all himself. Lewis also challenges some of the ideas often taken for granted in the sex positive communities and gives us a chance to think about how we engage relationships, and others. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

19. Greg and Edith Interview
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Description: This week's contest: Win a $50 Amazon gift card for leaving a review for the podcast. I will pick a winner in the next two weeks, for whoever likes, subscribes, and leaves a review for Intellectual Erection! Winner will be based on whoever leaves the best review! On this episode I speak with Greg and Edith about their relationship as polyamorists, their former marriages, and how they envision a future for poly folks. Greg and Edith open up about their former relationships, having been married and monogamous, and how their divorces led them to seek other opportunities in the sex positive and poly communities. They discuss their first date at Oasis Aqualounge, and how that first experience led them to form a relationship where they seek to explore their hedonism together. They examine what happiness means for them, what constitutes love and good sex in their relationship, and what they’re looking for in building a future together. Finally, they provide some insight into the sociopolitical issues faced by some poly folk and how the future might look brighter given certain changes. Find Edith's sexy fitness and kink pics on: https://www.instagram.com/edendeplume/ Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

20. Eugene and Alexis Interview
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Description: On this episode I talk with Eugene and Alexis, a married couple from Toronto, about what it's like to have a marriage and participate in the poly and kink communities, and how to navigate relationship communication about sex with others. Eugene and Alexis open up about their first sexual experiences, how they met, and eventually got married, and how their sluttiness developed communally as an activity that brought them even closer together. They discuss what it’s like to be married and play with others, how they handle jealousy and communication about group play, separate individual dates, and even dating other couples. They allow us insight into how love works between two people who are able to share it with others, along with some very steamy sex. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

21. Lilly Interview
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Description: On this episode I chat with Lilly, a Swedish ballerina, who emigrated to Toronto and discovered her kinks and fetishes in the process. She takes us through her experiences and how she navigates all her intersecting dynamics. Lilly discusses how she became a “kinky, polyamorous, slut” after a Tinder date in Toronto. How a kink/fetish test awakened her interest in BDSM and moved her interests away from vanilla sex. She captures the nuances of polyamoury from her experiences and relationships, and gives us insight into the dynamics she’s experienced—what she liked and hasn’t liked. Lilly also describes the intricacies of rope bondage, being submissive, receiving pain, and dealing with the bruises in the aftermath and at work. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

22. Nick Interview
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Description: In this episode I speak with Nick about monogamy, and why it sometimes fails, how he discovered polyamory and came out, and we discuss some issues of consent. Nick gives us the lowdown on having been married for 17 years, having a child, and then realizing that monogamy did not work for him. He opens up about the difficulties of transitioning from monogamy to polyamory and the sense of relief at having discovered a space to feel good, physically and emotionally. He talks about his experience coming out as pansexual, and how this liberating experience has led him to a happier, more authentic life, and improved his sex life enormously. Finally, he talks about some matters of consent, and how consensual, intimate sex far outweighs the alternatives, for him. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

23. Cupcake Interview
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Description: On this episode I speak with Cupcake, a human from Toronto who shares some insights on the experiences, dynamics, and politics of being in polyamorous relationships. Cupcake delivers a very well versed understanding of polyamorous relationships, from her experiences, readings, and having been around a diverse array of poly folks. She displays some of the communication techniques that are especially valued in the poly community, from being open minded, honest, critical, and unassuming. In this way, she allows us insight into what it’s like to be in the sex positive poly community, and how these relations play out to negotiate feelings, needs, and good sex. Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast

24. Vixen Vu Interview
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Description: In the first ever episode of intellectual erection, I interview Toronto based webcam model Vixen Vu about her experiences with pornography, web cam modelling, sex, kink, bdsm, and relationships. Vixen Vu talks about what it’s like to play with herself on camera, how she got into the industry, what her kinks and fetishes are, and where all this sex originated from in her life. She also discusses what it’s like to be polyamorous, the liberating and enjoyable aspects of her romantic relationships, and some of the difficulties she’s encountered in the poly community. Overall, we get a good insiders perspective of what it’s like to live the sexy life of an amateur porn star and cam girl, and what things look like behind the scenes, which may surprise some listeners. Find Vixen Vu on: E-mail: TheRealVixenVu@gmail.com Twitter: @TheRealVixenVu Public Snapchat: @TheRealVixenVu Tumblr: vixenvu.tumblr.com Instagram: @VixenWithClaws MyFreeCams: www.mfc.im/VixenVu ManyVids: vixenvu.manyvids.com Reddit: www.reddit.com/r/TheRealVixenVu Youtube Channel: VixenVu Blog: www.vixenwithclaws.com Support Intellectual Erection at: https://www.gofundme.com/help-intellectual-erection-podcast