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| Podcast title | Conscious Relationships Podcast
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| Description | Seminars for singles and couples on how to find and have a successful and fulfilling relationship | |
| Updated | Fri, 10 Feb 2012 17:04:28 GMT | |
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| Category | Self Improvement |
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1. How to Find Your Soul Mate http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 21.70Mb) Description: Are "soul mates" real? What's the difference between a Life Partner and a Soul Mate? This program features David Steele, author of Conscious Dating and his soul mate Darlene talking for the first time in public about their soul mate journey and how to use Conscious Dating to find your soul mate. |
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2. How to Become a Professional Coach http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 20.10Mb) Description: A straight-shooting program that demystifies and reveals the truth about the coaching profession. It will answer your questions: "Is coaching a good fit for me?" "Can I make a good living as a coach?" "What choices do I have for coach training and selecting a market niche?" This program is designed specifically for: • Therapists and other helping professionals, who are considering adding coaching to their practice • Aspiring coaches who want to launch a new career that is rewarding and fulfilling We demystify coaching and provide clear guidelines for how you can become a professional coach and build a successful practice. - What is coaching and how is it different from therapy? - Can ANYONE become a coach? - Do you need coaching training? - How to find the right coaching training program - How to make a good living as a successful coach |
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3. Relationship Essentials for Men http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 32.31Mb) Description: Historically, women have been thought of as the primary gatekeepers of intimate relationships. Unfortunately, there are several potential downsides to this paradigm: - Women often come to feel controlling, criticizing, and over-worked - Men often come to feel controlled, criticized, and unappreciated - Men tend to become defensive and avoidant and see their partner as a problem to be solved - Women tend to feel dismissed and lonely and have to guess what their partner is feeling and thinking - Both partners often end up feeling frustrated, resentful, powerless, and misunderstood (but doing more of the same thing, hoping for different results) No wonder over 50 percent of all marriages end in divorce and countless others wither in silent desperation. In this program Dr. Glover proposes a new paradigm of relationship interaction in which men become more fully present and take a more active leadership role in their relationship. Dr. Glover is not proposing that men become dominant or controlling, but that they become more conscious, honest, and transparent. In doing so, they can act with love and integrity in setting a tone that promotes open communication, problem resolution, reciprocity, trust, and sexual passion. In this program, men will learn: - How to become conscious and present in their intimate relationship - How to become a good 'ascertainer' - How to become honest and transparent with their partner - How to set the tone and take the lead with love and integrity In this program, women will learn: - What it looks like when their partner becomes present in their relationship - How to trust and let go of control - How to more fully participate in a more reciprocal relationship - How to welcome increased sexual passion |
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4. Addressing Relationship Energy Drainers http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 14.48Mb) Description: Do you know that "the way a relationship starts off, it tends to continue"? Too often we spend weeks or months in a relationship, only to find it is not working for us because we feel drained, guilty, very angry, or “used” in the relationship. You can save yourself time, energy, and pain by learning to recognize immediately when your energy is being drained and what you can do about it. Whether you have a penchant for attracting energy draining individuals or you experience energy draining only occasionally, you'll appreciate having readily-available tools for dealing with this all-too-common relationship challenge. In this program you will learn: - How and why energy draining occurs - 6 ways to immediately recognize when your energy is being drained. - Two prominent patterns of energy draining. - Three actions you can take to neutralize energy draining from others. - How to utilize the 72-Hour Rule to strengthen yourself in relationships. - The D.E.S.C. Plus-A-Step method for communicating powerfully. |
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5. Conscious Mating: Deciding "Is This The One?" http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 14.33Mb) Description: When singles become pre-committed couples they ask themselves "Is this the right relationship for me? Is this 'The One' for a lifetime commitment?" Fearing relationship failure, many avoid making this decision, and as a result the marriage rate is declining. Most of us want a fulfilling committed relationship. Our goal in Conscious Mating is to provide you the information and strategies for answering the question "Is this the right relationship for me?" In this program you will learn: - How to identify relationship red flags and danger signs - How to know if you're talking yourself into (or out of) a relationship because of fear - Our #1 Strategy for determining "Is this 'The One?'" - Three powerful questions you need to ask yourself before considering commitment - Nine areas of a relationship to evaluate for decision-making - How to get off the fence, "Be the Chooser" and live happily ever after with your soul mate - And more! |
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6. No More Mr. Nice Guy! Getting What You Want in Love and Life http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 27.52Mb) Description: - Too concerned about what other people think of you? - Spend too much time taking care of other people? - Having a hard time making your intimate relationships work? - Frustrated with your sex life? In No More Mr. Nice Guy!, Dr. Robert Glover presents a proven plan to get what you want in love, sex and life. Whether you're single and looking for love or in a relationship that you want to become all it can be, Dr. Glover will help you identify your own self-defeating behaviors and find what you're looking for. - In this program you will learn- - How to stop seeking approval and make your needs a priority - How to build healthy, vibrant relationships - How to tell the truth with love - How to set the tone and take the lead without being controlling - Three rules for great sex |
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7. Conscious Mating: Sharing Our Vision http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.71Mb) Description: John Gottman's research reveals that 69% of conflict in relationships is due to unrealized expectations that come out in the relationship. In Conscious Mating we refer to what you want for your life and relationship as your "Vision." In this program you learn: - What is "Vision" and why is it important to relationship success? - How to gain clarity about your individual vision - How to develop a shared vision for your life together - The role of vision in determining long-term compatibility in dating and pre-committed relationships - How to use a "Conscious Mating Plan" to make your dreams come true in your life and relationship together - And more! |
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8. Conscious Mating: Are We Compatible? http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.61Mb) Description: Compatibility is a choice, and is not pre-determined. However, we do have a unique combination of personality traits, values, life vision, requirements, wants, and needs that will result in getting along with some people easier than others. In Conscious Mating we advocate being conscious of who you are and choosing a compatible partner. But how? There are so many ways of describing and measuring personality and many models and opinions about compatibility that it's very confusing, unless you're pioneering anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher (who is consulting with us on this topic). In this program you learn: - How your personality impacts your relationships - A simple method of determining your own personality profile - Which dominant personality traits are compatible, and which are not - Dr. Helen Fisher's brand new model of Four Love Types (as seen in this month's issue of Psychology Today and Oprah Magazine) - How to determine your own "Love Type" - What Love Types are compatible with you - And more! |
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9. Conscious Mating: Dealing With Our Baggage http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 15.63Mb) Description: We are a product of our past and can't get away from bringing our past baggage into our present relationships. To practice Conscious Mating we must be aware of our relationship history and patterns and how they impact our relationships. Past experiences shape how we think, feel and act, which becomes habitual unless we can use our consciousness to make different choices. In this program you learn: - How our past is a goldmine for discovering our Vision, Purpose, Requirements, Needs and Wants - "Baggage" as a source of strength as well as weakness - Research-based patterns and habits of successful relationships - The most one most important key to dealing with baggage - Four steps for dealing with baggage - And more! |
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10. Conscious Mating: Should We Live Together? http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.47Mb) Description: When singles become couples the most common next step is moving in together. It is a common misconception that living together is a good way to test compatibility for marriage and minimize risk of divorce. However- Fact #1: The cohabitation rate has skyrocketed over 1200% since 1960 Fact #2: 80% of these relationships are doomed to failure Fact #3: The divorce rate is higher for couples who cohabitate prior to marriage While we don't judge cohabitation to be good or bad, it's a personal choice and people will do it anyway, our goal in this program is to provide you the information and strategies needed to make effective choices about when, and if, to enter a living together arrangement. In this program you learn: - The role of inertia and momentum in living together - Top 6 myths of living together - Top 6 reasons for living together - Three types of cohabitators - Guidelines for conscious cohabitation |
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11. Creating Love Beyond Words: Straight Talk fr Women About Men http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.42Mb) Description: You’ll never get a closer marriage by talking to a man like you talk to your girlfriends. It’s not about “communication,” it’s about connection. Men want closer marriages just as much as women – The stereotype of the aloof or domineering male covers up the fact that he wants to be closer too, but not if he has to feel like a woman. In this seminar Dr. Pat Love talks to women about how to get the love you want from the man in your life . In this program you will learn- - 10 Ways Women Drive Men Away - About the emotional vocabulary gap -- why it sounds phony when he says it - How to handle male emotions: hint- you can't be too direct too quickly - The truth motivating the shut-down and controlling men, and what to do about it - Four nonverbal ways to connect with your man - New information about what brings men and women together, and what tears relationships apart - "Malespeak"- what he's saying that you don't hear - What a man would tell you if he could |
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12. Conscious Mating: Finding Lasting Love by Experiencing Your http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 17.17Mb) Description: When singles become couples, each partner has different hopes and dreams, wants and needs, attitudes and experiences. These differences too often result in relationship failure and disappointment when one or both partners attempt to mold the relationship and their partner to fit what they want, rather than accepting and embracing 'what is.' While we must have a vision and requirements and choose a partner and relationship aligned with what we want, we can't be so rigid we reject reality. How do we let go of needing perfection without settling for less than what we really want? In this program you learn: => How to let your 'experience' guide your heart and head in a pre-committed relationship => Top ten attitudes necessary for lasting love => What Greek mythology can teach us about pre-commitment => Top three dating traps that interfere with experiencing what's real for you => Three stages of pre-committed relationships => A simple, yet powerful triad for creating conscious relationships |
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13. Conscious Mating: Am I Ready to Be a Couple? http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.64Mb) Description: When you're dating, the transition from single to couple can go by so quickly it'll make your head spin. In Conscious Mating we believe this important step is best made with your eyes wide open and with a conscious choice to transition from being single to an exclusive relationship. How do you know when you're ready to move from “ME” to “WE”? What are the signs that you are ready for an exclusive relationship? How can you tell if your love interest is ready for the next step? How can you transition successfully from being single to being a couple? In our culture, we tend to skip an important step in our transition from “ME” to “WE”. We jump into commitment pre-maturely and set ourselves up for disappointment and pain down the road. In this program you learn: - The difference between being ready to find a life partner and being ready to be a couple - The signs that indicate readiness to become an exclusive couple - What it takes to prepare yourself for lasting love. |
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14. How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 9.89Mb) Description: Men are right. The “relationship talk” does not help. In this program Dr. Steven Stosny reveals the stunning truth about marital happiness: - Love is not about better communication. It's about connection. - You'll never get a closer relationship with your man by talking to him like you talk to one of your girlfriends. - Male emotions are like women's sexuality: you can't be too direct too quickly. There are four ways to connect with a man: - Touch - Activity - Sex - Routines Men want closer marriages just as much as women do, but not if they have to act like a woman. Talking makes women move closer; it makes men move away. The secret of the silent male is this: his wife supplies the meaning in his life. In this program you learn: - The same vulnerabilities that bring us together tear us apart - Why we fight - The worst thing a woman does to a man - The worst thing a man does to a woman - The Power Love Formula: 4 3/4 minutes a day to a powerful relationship |
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15. Reptiles in Love http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 10.93Mb) Description: How to recognize and prevent fights that escalate to mutually self-destructive behavior and achieve physical and emotional safety in conflict, sort out real from unreal issues, and identify and overcome the more primitive aspects of our nature. In this program you learn: - How the brain affects couples abilities to talk and really hear each other when they are fearful, angry or hurt - How to lower the emotions and intensity before trying to "fix things" or trying to get closer - How most repetitive battles are about "the wrong subject" ] - "Mechanical approaches" to lowering anxiety and calming each other |
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16. Conscious Mating: Is this the right relationship for me? http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.63Mb) Description: How to use the pre-commitment stage to prevent unnecessary divorce, including: - What is commitment in today's world - The largely unrecognized phenomenon of "Pre-Commitment" when singles become couples - Conscious vs. Unconscious pre-committed relationships - An inside peek at David and Linda's book-in-progress "Conscious Mating," which picks up where "Conscious Dating" leaves off |
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17. Single in the Summertime: How to Find Your Life Partner http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 15.37Mb) Description: So it's the middle of summer and you're still single. If the above sentence raises any angst for you, we want to help. In this program you learn- - Why being single is an opportunity, not a disease - How to have a fun and fulfilling life while single - What works, and what doesn't in the dating world - Ten things you can do RIGHT NOW to find your perfect mate by the end of the year With David Steele, author of "Conscious Dating" and Ken Donaldson, author of "Marry Yourself First" |
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18. Secrets of Happily Married Men http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 11.58Mb) Description: Men CAN learn to improve their marriage. This seminar covers: Ways that men have been viewed as unskilled in relationships, a bias that is perpetuated by popular media and even reinforced in some forms of therapy. Relationship strategies that appeal to men by recognizing men's unique communication style (for instance, men tend to use less words in emotional conversation,) and some of the hormonal and brain structural differences that explain this style. Specific strategies of listening and conflict management for men that can improve marital satisfaction |
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19. Marry Yourself First http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 10.55Mb) Description: Author, psychotherapist and relationship coach Ken Donaldson helps you discover the strategies needed to create lasting relationships and live a life of passion, power and purpose. This program covers the principles of: - Attraction: Discover why you attract certain types of people and how to attract more of what you truly want - Boundaries: Unveil the internal and external boundary dynamics that will keep you in your power and passion - Communication: Learn the how to avoid "Bull-fighting, Pig-wrestling and Rabbit-chasing" and instead communicate assertively and effectively Deal-Makers and Deal-Breakers: Reveal the Deal-makers and Deal-breakers that will keep you the happiest, healthiest and wealthiest - Emotional (and Little Voice) Management: Discover the secrets of self-intervention and how to break out of old self-limiting beliefs Marry YourSelf First is for those who are tired of relationships that haven't worked and for those who want to live and love the life they were meant to have. |
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20. The Couples Circle- A Powerful Peer Support Model http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 11.69Mb) Description: A "Couples Circle" is a peer group of couples supporting each other to have a successful and fulfilling conscious relationship. This audio program provides the format and specific instructions for how the Couples Circle works. |
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21. Everything You Need to Know About Conscious Relationships http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 11.80Mb) Description: with Gay Hendricks, PhD and Kathlyn Hendricks, PhD In this program you learn: - How to expand our capacity to give and receive love on a daily basis - The power of commitment - Radical responsibility: from blame to wonder - Speaking and listening in a way that stops arguments and opens vitality |
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22. You Don't Have to Take It Anymore! http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 10.04Mb) Description: With Steven Stosny, Ph.D. Millions of people walk on eggshells, constantly second-guessing themselves, editing what they say, worrying if they did things okay, trying to be in a good mood, all to prevent criticism, cold shoulders, angry outbursts, or to keep from creating negative impressions. They lose their very sense of self and don't like the persons they've become. Dr. Stosny, author of You Don't Have to Take It Anymore: How to Turn Your Resentful, Angry, or Abusive Relationship into a Compassionate, Loving One (Free Press, January 2006) discusses: -The dynamics and effects of walking on eggshells -The harm to children -The way out |
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23. The Miracle of Connection http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 12.73Mb) Description: Hedy Schleifer teaches how to: - Create a safe harbor and sacred shelter in your relationship - Become a dependable champion and ally for each other's completion and wholeness - Use relational "mistakes" as lauching pads for relational growth - Co-create a living laboratory for the development of Relational Maturity - Help each other step into the most life-affirming and awe-inspiring future possible |
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24. Conscious Dating: Finding the Love of Your Life http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 10.20Mb) Description: After 8 years of research, development, and writing, the Conscious Dating book is finally published! In a recorded interview about the launch of his new book "Conscious Dating, David Steele discusses: - His 8 year journey in writing this book - Why this book is different from other books for singles - How this book will change relationships forever |
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25. Be The Chooser! How to Get What You Really Want in Your Life http://dasteele42.hipcast.com/... download (audio/mpeg, 10.53Mb) Description: - Three easy steps for being The Chooser - The single most powerful technique for achieving your goals - Seven key choices you can make to get what you want really in your life - How to overcome your fears, break old patterns, and go for it! |
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