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Podcast title	Foster Parenting Podcast
Website URL	http://fosterpodcast.com
Description	Tim & Wendy journey through the foster parenting and adoption process
Updated	Wed, 17 Mar 2010 05:17:15 +0000
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1. Episode 77 – Abuse In Foster Care http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 30.18Mb) Description: We respond to a recent news story about allegations of abuse within a foster care home.nbsp; We've got some specifics ideas on what can prevent this kind of thing from happening and what YOU can do about it. The news story we reference can be found here.
2. Episode 76 – A First Placement http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 17.19Mb) Description: D #38; K jump right into all of the awkwardness of being foster parents.nbsp; From handling a little boy's questions, to sitting in court with the birth parents, and turning down other placements.nbsp; Within three weeks they've been exposed to a lot.
3. Episode 75 – Responding to Questions http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.05Mb) Description: As D #38; K await their first placement they discuss how they've handled the inevitable questions that arise about their future as foster parents.nbsp; Someone recently asked them perhaps the most shocking question we've ever heard.
4. Episode 74 – Newly Licensed http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 15.97Mb) Description: We talked with a newly licensed pair of foster parents, "D" and "K" about what they've done to prepare for their new journey.
5. Episode 73 – The Blind Side http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.09Mb) Description: We review "The Blind Side" and give a foster parent's perspective on the movie.nbsp; We liked the movie and think you should see it. Perhaps more importantly you might want to take family and friends who are apprehensive about foster care. Below is the trailer for the movie and a clip from "Mad TV" that we mention in the episode.
6. Episode 72 – Settling In After Adoption http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 29.35Mb) Description: We're back with a new episode.nbsp; Linda has had her ups and downs since our adoption. We also requested an Individual Education Plan for Andrea. Tim gives his opinion on what the British will call the last decade and Wendy once again humors his inane penchant for trivia.nbsp; We answer a listener question from Kim on helping a bio-dad with a successful reunification.
7. Episode 71 – Helping Foster Kids Succeed in School http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 29.57Mb) Description: A new school year has begun and we're learning how to help our kids with their school work. We discuss reasons that children in the foster care system often have learning delays or fall behind in school, including social and emotional issues. One way that a parents can help their children is by requesting an Individual Education Plan.nbsp; An IEP should be requested in writing. We also share more listener comments on how to prepare a foster child for an adoptive home.
8. Episode 70 – Interview with Adoptive Parent Amy http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 36.40Mb) Description: We interview Amy, a fost-adopt parent who has had the experience of adopting four siblings consecutively. Her most recent adoption is being completed across state lines. Amy shares some personal experiences including infertility, pregnancy after adopting, and the death of a child. Also in this episode, we answer listener Kim's question about how to help a foster child transition to his adoptive home.
9. Episode 69 – Another Place At the Table http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 21.82Mb) Description: We give a review of "Another Place at the Table" by Kathy Harrison. It's about the life of a pair of foster parents with some actual experience under their belts. We also briefly mention "Three Little Words: A Memoir" by Ashley Rhodes-Courter. In listener corner we share a comment to our last episode. You can read that comment and our response here.
10. Episode 68 – Jeremy, Former Foster Child http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 30.89Mb) Description: We sit down and interview Jeremy, a former foster child, about his experiences in the system and any wisdom he can pass on to foster parents. We also give a brief review of "The Miracle Worker" and highly recommend watching it. At least watch this scene and catch the pay off line at the end of this scene; "the room is a wreck but her napkin is folded". We identify with it a lot.
11. Episode 67 – Adoption Day http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 19.71Mb) Description: We did it! We finally adopted our girls. This is our play by play of the day we've been working toward for the last 2 years. It's finally come and gone. We tell you exactly what to expect from the courtroom and the judge when yo get to adopt your children. Celebrate with us and don't forget to check out our special surprise here.
12. Our Kids Dress Themselves http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (application/x-shockwave-flash, 0.00Mb) Description: Join foster parents T and W as they discuss foster care and adoption. With humor, insight and Christian faith, they share their everyday ups and downs as a foster family with hopes of adoption. Get your questions answered about the foster and fost adopt system while following Tim and Wendy as they journey through the process. What is it like to deal with the system? Are all social workers really jaded? How intrusive is it on your life? All these questions and more will be answered from a real-life perspective. Watch out! You may find yourself thinking about fostering or adopting too!
13. Episode 66 – Choosing the Right Kids http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 32.78Mb) Description: A letter from listener Bonnie inspires this episode on choosing which kids to adopt. We also give advice on whether or not potential grandparents should get attached if the adoption status is unknown. Thanks Bonnie for your great letter.
14. Episode 65 – Adoption Signing http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.96Mb) Description: We signed our adoption papers last week!nbsp; Woo Hoo!nbsp; We're almost finished adopting Andrea and Linda. In this episode we discuss what the adoption signing process is like, what papers you actually sign and what changes for us at this stage in the journey.nbsp; We're now on the Adoption Assistance Program and the kids have new names. Don't miss Wendy's special tribute to Punky Brewster.
15. Oops, Not Yet http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (, 0.00Mb) Description:
16. Episode 64 – The Open Adoption Experience http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.84Mb) Description: We recently read The Open Adoption Experience by Lois Ruskai Melina and Sharon Kaplan Roszia. We found this book to be an excellent handbook for navigating open and semiopen adoption. Topics include boundaries between the adoptive family and the birth family; differences between fathers' and mothers' concerns; and expectations of birth parents. We also share a letter we wrote to our daughters' birth mother and birth grandfather.
17. Episode 63 – You Did Not Grow In My Heart http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 12.41Mb) Description: How long does it take to ldquo;get overrdquo; adoption? Thatrsquo;s a trick question. Every stage of a childrsquo;s life brings new challenges in understanding their own identity as an adopted individual. In this episode, we explore each stage and what parents can do to help their children process their experiences. Learn how to talk about adoption with your child, and why your child may feel like an alien if you try to tell him, ldquo;You grew in my heart.rdquo; We got some of our information from "Being Adopted: The Lifelong Search for Self" by David M. Brodzinsky, Marshall D. Schecter, and Robin Marantz Henig. We also discuss our recent experiences with poop smearing, temper tantrums and a broken arm.
18. Episode 62 – Preventing Child Abuse http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 29.37Mb) Description: What happens when you pick up the phone to report child abuse? In honor of Child Abuse Prevention Month, we discuss the process of recognizing and reporting child abuse and neglect. Topics covered include: what to look for, children left home alone, mandated reporters, and the difference between physical, sexual, and emotional abuse. We refer to an online information packet at Child Welfare Information Gateway. Order a free Child Abuse Prevention Manual from Olive Crest. Save the phone number for the child abuse reporting line for your state.
19. Episode 61 – A Conversation for Christians http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.69Mb) Description: In this episode we decide to have a conversation with Christians about Christianity (and foster care). If you're not a Christian, feel free to listen in on our "family" conversation. But we won't be offended if you're not interested. If you are a Christian, then you definitely should listen to this one. It's our thoughts on why Christians MUST be involved in some way in orphan care. Some of the verses we mention: James 1:27 Isaiah 58 Ephesians: 2:8-10 Matthew 10:8 Philippians 4:13
20. Episode 60 – Second Guessing http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.08Mb) Description: We discuss the seconds thoughts we have about a number issues over the last year.nbsp; They include open adoption, termination of parental rights, two working parents and ending family therapy.
21. Episode 59 – Foster Club and NFPA http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.99Mb) Description: We recommend you check out these two sites: Fosterclub.com - A social networking site for foster youth. NFPAonline.org - Stats, resources, scholarships, and support for foster parents. Listener Laura recommended we listen to this lecture on "The Racial Geography of Child Welfare" by Dorothy Roberts. We're passing on the recommendation. It's a good listen.
22. Episode 58 – Racial Bias In Foster Care http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.80Mb) Description: Our thoughts on a report on racial bias in the Michigan foster care system. The news report we read excerpts from can be found at the Detroit News. #160; The full report from the Center for the Study of Social Policy can be found here.
23. Episode 57 – Love At First Sight http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 12.29Mb) Description: Tim and Wendy explore the idea of "love at first sight" and discuss whether or not it's possible in a fost/adopt situation. Also hear our thoughts on Andrea's first romance and the theme for her upcoming birthday party. We also recommend this Nuclearity episode.
24. Episode 56 – Blending a Family http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.33Mb) Description: Tim sits down with a friend and foster parent named Jim to talk about building a blended family with foster kids and bio kids. Jim and his wife Melanie are foster parents in Washington and have a unique story. Wendy says this is the episode to have your husband listen to. Our podcast announces some big news as well. Our first official sponsor and our own foster agency! OLIVE CREST FOSTER ADOPTION AGENCY 1-800-74-FOSTER (800-743-6783) http://www.olivecrest.org If you live in Southern California, Southern Nevada, or the Pacific Northwest, give them a call and tell them you heard about them from us. Also, if you want to know what we think of you doing your own podcast, the answer is "we'd love it".
25. Episode 55 – Bye Bye Baby and Hello Big News http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 27.92Mb) Description: Baby Kay left our home today and we reflect on her time here, her future and what we did to say good bye. In addition we got some much anticipated news from our Social Worker
26. Episode 54 – No Good Deed Goes Unpunished http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.05Mb) Description: An update on our lives since Baby Kay entered our family. nbsp; A new baby in our life has brought many new trials and taught us a thing or two about who we are.
27. Episode 53 – Surprises http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.18Mb) Description: December has not turned out the way we expected. First, we had a car accident and totaled our family vehicle. Then, today, we accepted placement of a 9-month-old baby girl. The car accident brought up a discussion about grief and loss. We also touch on the triggers brought on by the holidays for foster children. Finally, 9-month-old Kay teaches us something central to the Christmas story. Here's the link to the documentary listener Krysta told us about. Watch it! Where Children Find Hope Andrea's drawing Linda's Drawing
28. Episode 52 – Bedtime: We’ve Tried Everything in the Book http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 12.49Mb) Description: Listener Laura asks us to name all of the things we've tried to help Linda to go to sleep. This episode went a little longer than even we expected. We mentioned the Sleep Lady. You can find more information about her here. We were recently interviewed by Hugh Duncan for his podcast Nuclearity.nbsp; You can listen to our interview here.
29. Episode 51 – Where We Are At http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.70Mb) Description: A general update on where our family is at and some recent stories that tell us we are making progress.
30. Episode 50 – Forty Reasons We’re Adopting Through Foster Care http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.75Mb) Description: These are 40 of our own personal reasons to adopt through foster care. They're not necessarily for you or anyone else, but they are what compels us. Celebrate National Adoption Month with us!
31. Episode 49 – Ramona, Former Foster Child http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 31.20Mb) Description: Wendy takes time to interview our friend Ramona, who grew up in foster care. Coming soon: stay tuned for our National Adoption Month plans. Email with any of your adoption specific questions.
32. Episode 48 – Start Preparing For Foster Parenting http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 27.37Mb) Description: So you want to be a foster parent, but not yet.nbsp; What can you do with all that energy you've got?nbsp; We give some practical advice for how to prepare yourself. Engagement Checklist: http://marriage.about.com/od/engagement/ss/engagedissues.htm A book on grief and loss we recommend: Changes That Heal by Henry Cloud.
33. Episode 47 – UnAdoption http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 26.42Mb) Description: Can you "unadopt" a child? It sounds terrible, but we've known children whose adoption was dissolved by their adoptive parents AFTER the adoption was finalized. In this episode, we discuss adoption dissolution: why adoptions fail and how to ensure a successful adoption. Some links we found helpful during our research: Preventing dissolution of an adoption http://adoption.families.com/blog/parental-claiming-of-an-ol der-adopted-child Statistics on adoption disruption and dissolution http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/s_disrup.cfm Who pays for foster care when an adoption is dissolved? http://www.nacac.org/adoptionsubsidy/factsheets/childsupport enforcement.html
34. Episode 46 – Emotional Triggers http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 19.29Mb) Description: The game "Uno" has a strange effect on our girls. We discuss it as well as what kind of questions Andrea and Linda have about their biological family and what answers we provide to them.
35. Episode 45 – Our Apologies http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 15.29Mb) Description: Why we teach our kids to apologize and why we apologize to them. Also, we announce the winner of our trivia contest and reveal the answer. Wendy mentions these Bible references if you want to see what they say: Colossians 1:19-20 2 Corinthians 5:14-21
36. Episode 44 – Familiversary http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 16.89Mb) Description: We just celebrated our first full year with Andrea and Linda, or as we like to call it, our Familiversary. We offer the ten biggest surprises over the last year. Also, something for our listeners, a trivia contest!nbsp; Win a prize.
37. Episode 43 – Getting Your Kids to Fall in Love With You http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 22.94Mb) Description: We've started a new therapy program called Parent Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). We've only been to two sessions with the girls but have found that this "proven" program really works. If you'd like to start using some of the skills we're learning try using this acronym Praise appropriate behavior Reflect appropriate talk Imitate appropriate play Describe appropriate behavior Enthusiasm We also mention a daily ritual that we use in our marriage. The "5 A's" Appreciation Affection Apologize Ask (what can I do for you tomorrow?) Amen (how can I pray for you?)
38. Episode 42 – Two Working Parents http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.24Mb) Description: Can you foster kids while both parents work? Yes you can but it has some extra challenges. We discuss how we do it. Also an update on our chance encounter discussed in our last episode and a shout out to some strangers we met through our show.
39. Episode 41 – Chance Encounter http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 15.60Mb) Description: Our 4th of July (err Independence Day) celebration brought about a chance encounter that we had hoped to avoid. It's a foster parent nightmare come to pass.
40. Episode 40 – Fost-Adopt Disruption http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 12.84Mb) Description: What's a disruption? We give our thoughts on a fost-adopt placement that ends up getting reunified. This is not something we have experienced ourselves so we'd love to hear listener feedback.
41. Episode 39 – Foster Care in the Media http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 21.70Mb) Description: We bemoan the bad wrap foster parenting tends to get in the media. We also offer up a review of the movie "Losing Isaiah" starring Halle Berry and Jessica Lange. Stay tuned for the end of this episode. We have a special treat for all of our listeners. You'll want to hear it.
42. Episode 38 – When Your Social Worker Doesn’t Return Calls http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 16.67Mb) Description: We discuss the very real problem of social workers who do not return calls. We offer advice and suggestions for getting them to call back with out suggesting a death in your home.
43. Episode 37 – Courtroom Drama http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.07Mb) Description: We had three days in court this week. For once, there was an outcome. Listen for a play-by-play. "We receive enlightenment only in proportion as we give ourselves more and more completely to God by humble submission and love. We do not first see, then act; we act, then see. It is only by the free submission of our judgment in dark faith that we can advance to the light of understanding. And that is why the man who waits to see clearly before he will believe never starts on the journey."nbsp; Thomas Merton Mentioned in this episode: Scriptorium Daily "Beauty of Your Peace" by Tim Hughes
44. Episode 36 – I Hate This, Thank You http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 19.89Mb) Description: Our extreme measures to get Linda to stay in bed have garnered some odd reactions from her. A relational benchmark was finally reached for T and Andrea. Also, we're approaching (hopefully) another court date and we discuss what it will mean for our family. Also, shout outs to Catholic in a Small Town and Tupelo Catholic Podcast. Check out their shows.
45. Episode 35 – You Can Do It http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 12.54Mb) Description: We discuss our impressions of mediation at this point in the process. We're not too thrilled with how it has gone to this point. Wendy shares a story that has meant a lot to her in the last couple of weeks. Check out this video for more inspiration! We also appreciate our friends, Jon and Amber, over at Monster Cookies for the plug of our show. Check out their podcast.
46. Episode 34 – Monitored Visits http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 26.99Mb) Description: What to expect at monitored visits. What are they? How often do they happen and why? We share why we prefer to be the monitors even though it exposes us to an awful lot of awkwardness with the birth family. Also: Wendy's favorite new podcast: "Creating a Family: Talk about Infertility and Adoption" with Dawn Davenport Help us promote our podcast. Click here.
47. Episode 33 – Why Our Kids Should See Their Birth Mom http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 30.90Mb) Description: We had some movement on the mediation process and it's not looking so great. So with that in mind we review for ourselves, why we're interested in post-adoption visits in the first place.
48. Episode 32 – Mediation Is More Exciting Than It Sounds http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.71Mb) Description: We finally met with our mediator! So we share all the details about what that process is like.
49. Episode 31 – Taking Foster Kids to Church http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 23.72Mb) Description: A question burning in the minds of all of our listeners, "Can you take foster kids to church?" We give you all the answers as we understand them. Listener Krysta gave us a heads up on this video that we think is a powerful explanation as to why adoption should be important to Christian.
50. Episode 30 – Listener Comments http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 28.81Mb) Description: We tackle several of the listener comments that we have not had a chance to get into. A whole episode devoted to our listeners! We mention: Disney's Enchanted A Mother for Choco Siberian Adoption Hotel
51. Episode 29 – Talking with Young Children about Adoption http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 28.36Mb) Description: A book review of Talking with Young Children about Adoption by Mary Watkins and Susan Fisher. We also briefly mention Adopting the Hurt Child: Hope for Families With Special-Needs Kids : A Guide for Parents and Professionalsby Gregory Keck and Regina Kupecky. Watch out there is a return of the "Listener Corner" theme song!
52. Episode 28 – Adopting Across Racial Lines http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 24.33Mb) Description: A good friend and regular listener questions something we said in the past about the appropriateness of adopting across racial lines. So we devote the full episode to that sensitive but pertinent topic. We refer to: The Multi-Ethnic Placement Act of 1994 Talking with Young Children about Adoption Considering Interracial Adoption by Carrie Craft
53. Episode 27 – Embracing Special Needs http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.99Mb) Description: We had a bit of a "come to Jesus" discussion with our family therapist and are facing some tough realities. We also share what it was like to spend some time with the girl's grandfather. Tuesday night was kind of like a Twilight Zone episode for us. It made us think of a skit on Saturday Night Live that you can see here.
54. Episode 26 – Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 16.85Mb) Description: We're a couple of days late because sickness has struck our home. But we're back with a review of Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control: A Love-Based Approach to Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors. The book is authored by Heather Forbes and Bryan Post. They have their own website at BeyondConsequences.com No, we're not abandoning Love Logic and Yes, we're recommending this book. It's a rare parenting book with a 2 week guarantee and it has helped us. You should check it out. Note: We're not sure what's up with the sound quality. Wendy was actually right next to the microphone and Tim was a couple of feet away. But it sounds exactly opposite of that.
55. Episode 25 – Inside a Court Room http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 20.08Mb) Description: We had a big court date today. We've been quite worried about it for the last several days. There was good news and bad news. The bad news was that the hearing was postponed. The good news was that it was postponed so that we could meet Carmen with a mediator and work out post-adoption visitations. If we can come to an agreement we'll be adopting Andrea and Linda! We're not quite at the finish line yet, but we're getting really close. This was fantastic news. We make sure to fill everyone in on the insides and outsides of a family services courtroom. For anyone who really cares. We start off talking about an 80's song by Til Tuesday. You can see the video here. (which we found for free).nbsp; Tim is a little disappointed that he didn't already know it was an Aimee Mann song.
56. Episode 24 – Odds of Getting a Placement http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 20.35Mb) Description: Andrea and Linda had a visit with their grandfather. The visit went great but the aftermath was not so great. Also Wendy left town for 3.5 days, find out how Tim did with them on his own once more. In this episode we offer our ideas on how to more easily get placed with kids. If you're having a hard time getting kids placed in your home this episode just for you.
57. Episode 23 – What Do Your Neighbors Think? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 22.01Mb) Description: An update on Baby Janelle and our lives in general. We also review the National Foster Care Adoption Attitudes Survey produced by the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption. What are the common misconceptions Americans have about adoption and foster care? Tim also does an excellent job of sticking his foot in his mouth and alienating his relatives. Watch how he climbs out of the mess he makes for himself.
58. Episode 22 – A Crazy System http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 21.70Mb) Description: So it turns out it's true. It's a crazy system. This episode presents more questions than answers, for us at least. It turns out that we may be having a baby! Within the next couple of days we'll find out if Andrea and Linda's sister, Janelle, will be joining us. We discuss our decision making process for what was a tough call for us. Also Andrea and Linda had a visit with their grandfather that didn't go the way we hoped.
59. Episode 21 – Angry Kids http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 21.57Mb) Description: We had a really pleasant week which included a trip the the Emergency Room and a lot of displays of flat out anger and aggression in our girls. To top it off, they've learned the "F" word. We give a shout out to Jana Alayra, the Children's Worship Leader who taught our girls how to cuss (It wasn't really her fault). Jana, if you're out there we need you to come teach a couple of preschoolers what the real lyrics are. An update on our court date and what we can expect next. We also start a new feature called "Listener's Corner". Wait till you hear the jingle.
60. Episode 20 – New Year, New Place, New Issues http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 16.81Mb) Description: We're back after a long delay. We're finally in our new place and facing new struggles as a result. We've got some funny stories to share as well We mention De Facto Parenting status in this episode. Here's a link that discusses it further. What is a De Facto Parent?
61. Episode 19 – Being the “Other” Mommy http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 0.00Mb) Description: Wendy is alone again and takes the opportunity to talk candidly about motherhood. Andrea and Linda still have visits with their birth mother. So how does it feel to be the "other" mommy? Also discussed: Visits with biological parents Our next court date The desire for biological children
62. Episode 18 – Moving with Foster Children http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.98Mb) Description: Here are some special considerations when you move with foster children. Moving is stressful, but you can ease the transition with some planning and TLC. Also discussed: Should 3-year-olds be watching The Wizard of Oz? More tips on moving with children: How to Make It Easier For Them 10 Tips for Relocating with Kids
63. Episode 17 – Thankfulness http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 20.74Mb) Description: This episode is about being grateful and gratitude. It's also about how you won't hear those expressions from foster kids. We mentioned these other websites: An article by Carrie Craft The Project Management Podcast by Cornelius Fichtner Why Children May Not Want To Talk About Adoption
64. Episode 16 – Why Adopt Through Foster Care? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 19.60Mb) Description: We try to make our best case for why you should adopt through foster care. We start out with some fundamentals that influence our thinking and then list our 8 best reasons to adopt through the foster care system. There is plenty of data about the harmful effects orphanages have on children. Here is one of many links. http://www.nacac.org/policy/orphanages.html A family is always better than an institution.
65. Episode 15 – Fostering Teenagers http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 18.60Mb) Description: Our brief experience fostering teenage girls is discussed in all of its glory. We didn't have a positive experience but we still think it's a great idea to foster teenagers. Hopefully someone can learn from our experience (most of all us). We should also be clear, as always, that Michael, Beth and Clare are not their real names.
66. Episode 14 – Choose the Right Agency http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 19.83Mb) Description: In this episode we respond to some listener feedback and answer how we think you should go about choosing the right agency. In this episode we talk about: Foster vs. Fost/adopt Returning your Calls Location Shared Values Other Foster Parents and much more
67. Episode 13 – What We’ve Done Right http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.40Mb) Description: We talk about what we've done right or "the shortest episode ever." In this episode we talk about: The Snack Bin Don't buy into the chaos Animals and attachment The Picture Wall Clearing our schedules
68. Episode 12 – Parenting with Love and Logic http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 17.66Mb) Description: We use Love and Logic, a parenting approach that - you guessed it - emphasizes two things: love and logic. In this episode we talk about: Parenting With Love And Logic. Buy the book! The basics of Love and Logic: choices, consequences and empathy Why Love and Logic is effective with foster children Examples from our experiences with kids, ages 3 to 18
69. Episode 11 – Discipline, Spanking and Time-outs. http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 17.58Mb) Description: Wendy's back behind the microphone, so no shenanigans this week. In this episode we talk about: The difficulties the girls had while Wendy was away The difference between discipline and punishment Can you spank foster kids? The difficulties we have making the girls sit through a time-out
70. Episode 10 – Community http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.02Mb) Description: Wendy is out of town, so Tim hosts the podcast by himself but he's got 2 special guest with him! In this episode we talk about: The need for community in the life of a foster parent. His Children, an organization that helps churches develop foster care ministries Special things Wendy did for the girls while she is away.
71. Episode 9 – When Are You Going To Have Your Own Kids? http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 11.44Mb) Description: The second most question we are asked is "when are you going to have your own kids?" We struggle with how to answer this question. You can hear our thoughts on why. In this episode we talk about: Why we're troubled by an innocent question Consider Birth Order Foster kids are always expected to bend
72. Episode 8 – Gifts for Foster and Adoptive Families http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 11.50Mb) Description: We've had some questions about what are good gifts to give to foster kids. Please, we're not asking for anything! In this episode we talk about: Good and bad reasons to give Gifts that welcome a child Gifts that show solidarity
73. Episode 7 – Nobody Saw THAT Coming http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 15.61Mb) Description: We got a surprise this week that may change the course of our lives. In this episode we also talk about: Reporting child abuse Dora the Explorer freebies Holding time (read an article on holding time here)
74. Episode 6 – Be A Good Daddy http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.74Mb) Description: We talk about how important it is for foster kids to have good daddies. We talk about: The need to counteract bad fathers in foster kids' lives Giving hugs Foster dads who get dragged into by their wives Telling girls they are pretty. John and Stasi Eldredge: Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul Calming Andrea's mania
75. Andrea & Linda http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (, 0.00Mb) Description:
76. Episode 5 – The First Week of Placement http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.88Mb) Description: We've completed our first week of placement with Andrea and Linda. We had lots of appointments and set up lots of different services for the girls.
77. Episode 4 – Don’t You Get Attached http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 14.10Mb) Description: Andrea and Linda have moved into our home! If you're only going to listen to one episode, this is the one to listen to. We talk about: The #1 question we're asked about foster parenting The problem of attachment 40% of people in homeless shelters were once foster kids! How to pray for Andrea and Linda's mom, Carmen Tim makes a reference to a bad 80's movie
78. Episode 3 – Overnight Visit http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 13.90Mb) Description: We've met them! It didn't take long to fall in love. This episode is about: First night: Playing with My Little Pony at the county facility Second night: Going out for milkshakes Third night: An overnight visit in our home Plus, the pros and cons of being certified through a Foster Family Agency
79. Episode 2 – Waiting http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 7.24Mb) Description: It's our second shot at this thing. We're waiting on the County placement worker to talk with us, see our home and approve us This episode is about: Waiting and being evaluated Tantrums Decorating for girls Dating ages for teenage girls
80. Episode 1 – Meet Tim and Wendy http://feedproxy.google.com/~r... download (audio/mpeg, 9.58Mb) Description: Our first episode. We talk about the kids we've had in our home and the kids that are about to enter our home. This episode is a little bit about us, plus: Why are kids in foster care? What's the difference between "foster" and "fost/adopt?" Which kids are coming into our home? Who the heck are Andrea and Linda?