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If  you find yourself stuck in a state of  blaming your ex for most of the problems in your relationship, this program will help you understand how to take responsibility for your part of what went wrong in your relationship thus allowing you to take back control of your life.

Once you have moved into acceptance of your life, you can concentrate on moving on after divorce. Moving on means connecting with what is now important to you. Moving on means discovering what you truly want from life, what makes you come alive and brings you joy.

This episode of Divorce Recovery with Shelley Stile will help you become empowered, confident and enthusiastic to move on. You will learn to take full responsibility and control of your life and transform it into something wonderful and new.

Deirdre Dyment is an interior designer who believes in designing an overall experience at home that leaves you spiritually energized and equipped to live your life passionately.  Deirdre knows all too well, there’s much more involved in leaving the matrimonial home than packing a suitcase and signing a lease. When she separated from her husband in 2007, she, unusually, helped him get set up in his new place, from stripping the floors and painting the walls to measuring and ordering furniture. They also got their two kids involved in creating their bedrooms.

The experience has since motivated Dyment to launch a novel service – post-divorce decorating – that assists in feathering the nests of newly single men in particular, whether it’s coordinating their renovations or sourcing and installing art to enliven their empty walls.

Topics in this program include:

• What are the different things can be done to make transition easier and less disruptive for children
• The emotional strain of leaving the family home; where to live, how much to spend and do you rent or purchase.  
• Creating an environment that will inspire and get the individual that has moved excited about the next chapter of their life.  
• Creating a space that reflects your personality and happiness.

http://www.deirdredymentdesign.com

In this episode of Divorce Recovery, Divorce/Life Coach, Shelley Stile teaches us how not to distort the reality of our situation.

When we are living our lives in a state of true awareness wherein we are truly conscious of our actions, we can free ourselves from reactive, self defeating behavior and realize our personal best. Unfortunately, although we may think that we make conscious decisions; in reality our unconscious mind impacts our behavior. Our actions are therefore not truly under our control. We can learn to recognize the unconscious, that part of our mind that has great power over much of our actions without us even being aware of its existence. In doing so, we can diminish its power over us.

When we live on a conscious level, we are as alert to what is happening as a deer in the woods who hears something unknown. We insure that our actions, our decisions, our communications are not influenced by the myriad filters we apply to life. We don’t look through rose colored or black glasses; we choose to look through crystal clear ones that do not distort reality.

In this program we learn how to recognize when we slip into unconsciousness, thereby training ourselves to be more and more conscious of what is really happening. We free ourselves from, doing the same things over and over again. We learn from our heightened sense of awareness. We begin to see things differently, in a much more objective and clear way.

Our guest, Chris Gersten (http://www.divorcereform.info/), is a former high ranking official in the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, serving in both Bush administraions. He was responsible for launching the Federal government's Healthy Marriage Initiative, creating a national organization to reform divorce laws in the U.S. and educate the public about the impact of divorce.

The result is the launch of the Coalition for Divorce Reform, formed in order to increase awareness of the negative impact of divorce, encourage discussion and debate about the effect of divorce on our culture, and support passage of divorce reform legislation. Topics in this program include:

• How the Coalition for Divorce Reform is trying to make a difference
• Why marriage counseling does not work; education and alternatives
• The importance of marriage education and the potential to save marriage
• The importance of a waiting period before filing for divorce
• Understanding relationships, the impact of divorce and so much more

Sex addiction is a problem that is sweeping the nation and one of the leading causes of marital conflict and divorce.

Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Dr. Kenneth Adams, is our guest and discusses what we can do to recognize this behavior and what we need to do to seek help.

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Everyone's talking about the Schwarzenegger divorce.  After twenty five years, Aronol and Maria Shriver have separated and appear to be heading towards divorce.

After leaving office as Governor of California, news broke that Arnold has another child from an anfair with one of his staff members.  And now as each day passes, we learn more about other alleged affairs Arnold may have had.

Affairs have played a roll in many divorces, so what can we learn from the Terminator's case?  In this program, attorney Henry Gornbein provides his thoughts on this widely popular affair.

Award winning writer/producer Arlene Sarner has written for every major movie studio including. Arlene is a talented and engaging writer who shares her story about forgiveness, personal transformation and moving on.  Arlene shares her very powerful story of turning years of acrimony and hostility towards her ex husband, into a now peaceful and civil relationship and says” So don't lose hope--even the most rancorous relationships with exes can eventually shift into civility” http://www.huffingtonpost.com/arlene-sarner/an-ex-passover-guest_b_852318.html?ref=tw

Topics in this program include:

• The Lunch with the ex and how it changed everything
• Forgiveness, the power to forgive and letting go
• How letting go of anger changed a family

The ability to move on after your divorce entails the letting go of the past with its emotional baggage and negative emotions. If you can accomplish this feat then the heavy burdens you have been carrying will lift and you will experience the liberation of freedom: the ability to move unimpeded towards whatever goal you establish for yourself.

Ask yourself: what is the price I am paying in holding onto what no longer exists? What is the cost of being chained to my negative emotions and perspective? Is it costing me my health? My peace of mind? My relationship with my children? My happiness? My optimism and enthusiasm for life? I assure you that the price you pay is very, very high and it is you alone, not your ex, that pays that price.

How would you feel if you were free of all that negative stuff? Would you feel the world contains new possibilities and opportunities for you? Would you feel light? Would your body and heart stop aching? Would you be able to be happy again? Would you have renewed energy? How would freedom feel for you?

Divorce and Life Coach Shelley Stile explains the importance of acceptance and letting go during this episode of Divorce Recovery.  For more information on Shelley Stile, visit her website at www.LifeAfterYourDivorce.com.

When Beverly Willett was faced with divorce she did something few have tried... challenging the divorce in court.  She wanted desperately to save her marriage and avoid divorce.  Beverly has extensive knowledge about the judicial system, both from her research and personal experience, and is passionate about divorce reform.

Beverly www.beverlywillett.com, is an author and former attorney. Her articles about divorce, marriage and parenting have appeared in many publications, including The New York Times, Newsweek, Woman’s Day, Family Circle, Prevention, Salon.com, Parenting and The Daily Beast. She’s a regular contributor to The Huffington Post Divorce page, a former Contributing Editor to Chicken Soup for the Soul Magazine, and a long-time advisor to Parentalwisdom.com. For the past year, she has been consulting with groups and individuals about divorce reform on a pro bono basis. She is the chair of the advisory committee for the Coalition for Divorce Reform. (http://www.divorcereform.info/)

Topics in this program include:

• The Impossible Dream: The Fight to Save Beverly’s Marriage
• Giving up on your career for your children
• The differences and flaws between No Fault vs. Fault Divorce
• When mom’s break up: Coping with the loss of friendships post divorce
• How the Coalition for Divorce Reform is making a difference.

Is it possible to remain happy as you face one of the most challenging times in your life? 

Our guest, Susan Pease Gadoua is the founder and Executive Director of the Transition Institute of Marin, specializing in meeting the needs of separating and divorcing men and women. We explore the importance of understanding your own needs, how to find your happiness, and the meaning of loving yourself.  It’s an enlightening and engaging conversation, tune in to learn how to find the power of happiness.

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If you are going through a divorce, chances are you've heard some negative thoughts running through your head.  Am I good enough?  Was this my Fault? Will I ever find another partner? Many going through a divorce experience these types of thoughts early on during the grief phase and this is quite normal and understandable.  But If you can't seem to move beyond these thoughts, it's time to explore them and ask yourself are my feelings and interpretations of my situation really true?  More times than not you'll discover these thoughts are not your reality but rather the meaning you have attached to them.

In this episode of Divorce Recovery, Shelley Stile shows us how to sort fact from fiction and helps us to see the truth.  By doing this, we empower ourselves to see the reality or our situation and can begin to let go of negative self talk.  Divorce is an opportunity for personal growth and Shelley provides us with tips to feel better mentally and physically during this tough time and helps us to discover our true reality.

In this episode of Divorce recovery with Shelley Stile, we explore Unenforceable Expectations as they relate to divorce and life in general.

Expectations or something we expect to go our way, can lead to resentment and disappointment. Our desire to expect everything to go our way can even be a form of self-sabotage.

As an example of Unenforceable Expectations, have you ever:

·     Expected your ex to treat you with kindness and respect?

·     Expected your ex to be fair regarding your financial settlement?

·     Expected you ex to be a wonderful father or mother to your children?

·     Expected the judge and mediator to see things your way?

So why do we expect so much from our ex, family and friends? Is this type of expectation a form of control?

Shelly Stile addresses these questions and explains how to accept the "Nature of Life", you'll have good days and bad. Your Self-imposed impossible expectations are a major source of your inability to let go of the pain of your divorce and move forward. This concept does not just apply to divorce recovery. It applies to all of life.

This program will help you to recognize and deal with any unenforceable expectations you may be having and get you on the path to a healthy mindset.

In this program we revisit the first step when considering a divorce, selecting the proper attorney for your divorce.

Our guests include renowned Michigan Family Law Attorney and  Divorce Source Radio Legal Correspondent, Henry Gornbein and from Toronto, Deborah Moskovitch, a professional Divorce Consultant and author or The Smart Divorce and host of The Smart Divorce Radio show.

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Our guest, Hanna McDonough, is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and Psychotherapist (www.hannatherapy.com).  Ms. McDonough shares her wisdom on finding the best in yourself, and delves into relationships and what’s important – is it sex, money?  And, what are the differences between men and women and they way each values a relationship. We explore the gamut in topics and - learn about living your life as an exclamation, not an explanation.

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Have you ever listened to the Negative Mind Chatter that goes on in your head during the course of your divorce?  Thoughts like "You aren't good enough", and fearful inner voices chattering "You'll be alone for the rest of your life".

Negative mind chatter can be rooted from our childhood.  During extreme stress, such as going through a divorce, our emotions have the ability to resurface with feelings of insecurity or not being "good enough", only now this negative self chatter is amplified.

In this epidsode of Divorce Recovery with Shelley Stile, Divorce Recovery/Life Coach Shelley Stile shows us ways to turn off the negative self talk and train ourselves to focus on building a positive fantastic future.

Contact Info for Shelley Stile: www.LifeAfterYourDivorce.com

Originally broadcast on October 8, 2009, Surviving Divorce with Dr. Larry Friedberg explores the five stages of anger and grief as it relates to a divorce. The five stages of divorce are: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression/Pain, Acceptance/Recovery.

It’s harder to get over a divorce than the death of a loved one.  Learn ways to cope with your hurt, anger and pain and discover how to come out the other side of divorce a healthy and happy person.

This is a “Must Hear” program for anyone experiencing the emotional pain of divorce.  For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Our guest, Emily Brown, is Director of Key Bridge Therapy & Mediation Center in Arlington, VA. (http://www.affairs-help.com/) works with couples, individuals, and families regarding the underlying issues in marriage, divorce, and betrayal. Battles over custody and related issues that are fueled by a personality disordered spouse can be the most frustrating of all wars.  The judges regularly get conned by the personality disordered spouse who makes nice in front of the judge; the other spouse who is angry and upset appears to be the problem.  Emily has worked with a number of these cases, trying to extricate the victimized spouse – and overcoming the frustration which many experience.  Tough cases, but she likes the challenge.

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Divorce Coach, Shelley Stile discusses the grieving process during this episode.

The hardest part of a loss is learning to accept this new reality and operate within the new geography. Nonetheless, it can and must be done. Once we have achieved a sense of closure, we can move forward. In every ending there is a new beginning but first we must accept the ending.

The loss involved in a divorce is as painful as a death. In many ways it is a death of an entire way of life. But what we need to know is this: it is not so much what happens to us in life, rather it is how we handle what happens to us that is important.

In this program, Shelley coaches us through:

The Intelligent Divorce lays out a blueprint that can teach you how to handle your divorce with grace, strength and wisdom. Based on hundreds of case studies and a decades of experience, it is designed with the health of your children in mind.

Our guest is the author of The Intelligent Divorce, Dr Mark R. Banschick,  a diplomat of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology with over 20 years of experience in child and adolescent psychiatry.

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Our guest, Elaine Cole, is Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, with a Master’s in Psychology, is passionate about helping Grandparents offer their hope, care, wisdom and unconditional positive regard to their grandchildren, especially during a family’s divorce.  (www.GreenMarriages.com). Become The Happiest Grandparents On The Block.  Ms. Cole advises “The worse thing I can say to Grandparents is the truth about their warring progeny. It is what it is.  You have next to no control over your child or the X.  So, this is my unheard plea:  Help our grandchildren navigate the turbulent waters of a family’s divorce” She believes this is a grandparent’s duty and their legacy to future generations. 

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Kelly Morrisey has created a connection with people from around the world with her creation of A Better Life After Divorce.com.  (www.aBetterLifeAfterDivorce.com)

Kelly provides international divorce recovery and personal growth strategies, tools and resources and has uplifted and enlightened many of those experiencing the trauma and crisis of divorce.

People from all over the world schedule private tele-sessions with Kelly Morrisey and seek her counsel. She holds tele-seminars revolving around the areas of divorce recovery, personal growth and building a strong loving relationship.

Kelly Morrisey is respected and endorsed by many of the top experts in the personal development and relationship field such as Bob Proctor (The Secret), Tony Robbins, Denis Waitley, Dr. Wayne Dyer and Marianne Williamson.

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Our guest, William A. (“Bill”) Eddy is an attorney, therapist and mediator, and the President of the High Conflict Institute based in Scottsdale, Arizona.  (http://www.highconflictinstitute.com/).  Bill helps us understand what personality disorder is and how to get along with someone who is narcissistic, has a border line personality disorder, or is a persistent blamer.  They aren’t just difficult people, they're the most difficult people. They file lawsuits, file complaints against professional licenses, gather negative advocates to support their position, cost employers lots of time & money, disrupt & distract, find a target of blame, and convince everyone that its never their fault!

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Our guest, Emily Brown, is Director of Key Bridge Therapy & Mediation Center in Arlington, VA. (http://www.affairs-help.com/); works with couples, individuals, and families regarding the underlying issues in marriage, divorce, and betrayal. An extramarital affair is one of the most painful experiences that couples face, and one of the greatest challenges for helping professionals. Whether you are seeking assistance in your personal life or you are professional seeking information to better help clients, this is the show that provides the wisdom and guidance so many need.  Emily is the author of Patterns of Infidelity and Their Treatment, and Affairs: A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity, and numerous articles on affairs. 

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Divorced mother of three Delaine Moore is an author, NLP Practitioner, speaker, and Licensed Mars Venus Life Coach, who specializes in divorce, dating, relationships and gender differences.  Since her own divorce in 2007, she has inspired thousands of divorced women to grab the next chapter of their lives by the horn and pursue passion on their own terms on her website, I Am Divorced Not Dead.  Hermemoir, A Woman’s Body Never Lies– which chronicles her wild, yet profound, ‘body-driven’ awakenings in the first after her divorce, was recently purchased by the feminist publisher, Seal Press, and is slated for release in Spring 2012. dwol.com - Divorced Women online

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For all of the divorces files every year, there are at least as many if not more who contemplate getting a divorce.

Facing such a big decision can be daunting. Feelings of sadness, guilt, fear and anger are normal now, especially if your spouse is unaware of the extent of your unhappiness or you feel unsupported. You are not alone. There are hundreds of thousands of people feeling stuck in matrimonial confusion. No matter how difficult the circumstances you face, there is a solution.

In this program, Susan Pease Gadoua, author of Contemplating Divorce, A Step-byStep Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay or Go, addresses the issues individuals face as they decide to work through their marriage issues or file for divorce.

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Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages.

Renowned  psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities.

This program has been the most downloaded program on Divorce Source Radio since first airing in July of 2009 and is helping tens of thousands of individual get over their divorce and move on with their lives.  This is a "Must Hear" program for anyone going through a divorce.

For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com.  For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com

Our guest, Jeffery Landers advocates for women. Jeff is a Divorce Financial Strategist and the founder of Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, a divorce financial strategy firm that exclusively works with women, who are going through, or might be going through, a financially complicated divorce.  Jeff reviews the Top 6 Serious Financial Mistakes Women Make.  But, men can learn some valuable lessons here as well.  Jeff advises “put your emotions on the side and think financially.”

Topics in this program include:

·         The top 6 serious financial mistakes made during divorce

·         The important steps to organize your finances and maintain control

·         Preparing for your financial future

·         Financial considerations to ensure long term financial stability

·         How to avoid divorce settlement mistakes

·         Divorce proofing your business

In this episode, attorney Henry Gornbein and psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg discuss what Henry perceives as a change for the worse with some attorneys practicing Family Law these days.

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Stacy D. Phillips, is a celebrity divorce lawyer extraordinaire.  She is the author of the best-selling book Divorce: It's All About Control - How to Win the Emotional, Psychological and Legal Wars (http://www.controlyourdivorce.com); a certified family law specialist, and founder and the managing partner of Phillips Lerner & Lauzon LLP (http://www.plljlaw.com/Bio/StacyPhillips.asp).  In this exclusive interview Stacy offers advice on how to cope with losing control and avoid common divorce battles.

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Fighting just to win, is it worth it?

How to deal with an inflexible ex

Positive. Life-enhancing. Enlightening. Compassionate. These words are seldom associated with divorce. Words that typically come to mind are: Painful. Agonizing. Resentful. Bitter.  Our guest, domestic relations judge and best-selling author Judge Michele Lowrance enlightens listeners how people can attain a positive outlook, achieve forgiveness, and move on with a mended soul (http://thegoodkarmadivorce.com/).  Judge Lowrance has learned that there's a better way to handle divorce. So she came up with a plan to turn the negatives of divorce into positives. She explains the program in her book, The Good Karma Divorce: Avoid Litigation, Turn Negative Emotions into Positive Actions, and Get On with the Rest of Your Life.

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Divorce Source has grown immensely over the past year and a half.  Tens of thousands of listeners from all over the world are turning to our podcasts for help and support during one of the most difficult times in their life; their divorce.

In this episode of The Pecking Order, Steve Peck reaches out to the Divorce Source Radio community and explores the possibility of taking DSR to the next level, allowing us to help even more people.  Steve is looking first to the DSR community to see if there are any listeners that have the means to help grow DSR.  Have you had experience building an internet business similar to DSR or are you an experienced media sales person who understands New Media and might have ideas regarding appropriate sponsors for DSR?  Perhaps you are a radio programmer and might have advice on syndicating our program to local stations.

Or maybe you're a listener who believes in what we're doing and would be willing to promote DSR through word of mouth and through your Facebook and Twitter account, that would be helpful too.  Whatever the case, Steve is looking for partners to help grow this radio program that helps so many people.

Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. At minimum, a major relationship is ending, all sorts of your normal routines are upset, and along with the stress of transition are the legal hoops we have to jump through before things can be resolved. There are also volatile emotions that are frequently associated with divorce.  Add all of these this together -  and you have a difficult situation to deal with.

In today's program we feature issues that women face during a divorce and our guest is Dennis Zamplas, founder of The Law Firm of Victoria, dedicated to representing women only in divorce and other family law matters.

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Roughly two million lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) individuals in the United States have married someone of the opposite sex.  When these partners come out of the closet, one third of these relationships break up right away, a third stay together for a year and then separate, and another third commit to making it work - although three years later, only half of this last group of relationships are still intact. Our guest Amity Buxton. Ph.D. http://www.straightspouse.org/home.php , discusses the grieving and healing process the straight spouse experiences upon learning of this revelation.  To read more about this topic, Deborah writes about it in more.ca.

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Through a frank conversation about life and book, The Look of Love (http://www.thelookoflovebook.com/index.html), Jill Egizii tells the story of a bitter divorce which rages into full scale warfare, and how the father uses the children as ammunition.  Is the shield of a mother’s love enough to save her children?  Or is it already too late.  We explore the effects of parent alienation on the family; the children, and the targeted parent.   This is a heart wrenching interview, in which Jill Egizii shares her personal experience of being a targeted parent which ultimately caused her to lose a close and loving relationship with her children.  Jill has put her heart and soul into helping others cope through the annihilation of a formerly positive relationship with one’s children. 

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Our guest is world renowned anti-aging expert and author of The Text Book of Bio-Identical Hormones, Dr. Edward Lichten.  Dr. Lichten has put together the missing pieces that  underlie most chronic disease-- hormone imbalances and we're going to be talking about how hormone imbalances in both men and women can lead to relationship problems that can end in divorce.

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and how to have more energy, be healthier and regain a passion and zest for life.

Tug of War

A Judge’s Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles, and the Bitter Realities of Family Court

There are many myths and misconceptions about what goes on in a Court Room.  When it comes to justice, all too often couples are disappointed by the outcome – and end up with large legal bills, family drama which causes an all out war, and a resolution that leaves couples disillusioned.  Our guest, Justice Harvey Brownstone, a sitting court judge, best-selling author, and host of Family Matters TV (http://www.familymatterstv.com/); helps us understand what really goes on inside the court room, and a judge’s mind.  Justice Brownstone has been called  a maverick judge who is a pioneer that is unilaterally changing the public image of the judiciary.  This honest and thought provoking interview will change the way you think about litigation, and how you work through the divorce process. We are fortunate to have Justice Brownstone share his thoughts and enlighten listeners as to what really goes on in Court, and what really matters. 

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·         The impact of litigation on the family

·         What is really in your children’s best interest

·         The importance of a legal consultation

·         A frank discussion about divorce, relationships and so much more

(Episode #1, The Smart Divorce with Deborah Moskovitch)

Help, I think my marriage is over, now what should I do?

Is divorce always the outcome when there is conflict in the marriage?  Of course not, there are options to consider, and help available to put your marriage back on track.  This episode explores the role of marriage counseling, and the next steps required if the marriage results in divorce.  Once the decision to divorce is made, there are many considerations and issues to ponder.  Our guest, psychologist Dr. Robert A. Simon http://dr-simon.com/ provides us with tips and strategies for getting through the early days of separation with your sanity and dignity intact.  

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In this episode, we discuss divorce from a man's point of view and our guest is David Pisarra, Esq., the founder and president of the Santa Monica, CA-based law office Pisarra and Grist as well as Men’s Family Law andwww.MensFamilyLaw.com established specifically for men to receive expert legal representation in divorce and custody proceedings while providing support programs and counseling designed to address their particular needs.

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Our program deals with Toxic Post Divorce Relationships.

In this program, psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg discusses how to deal with an unreasonable and angry ex.  For some couples, divorce means the end of a relationship and they learn to move on with their lives in a healthy way for themselves and their children.

Then there's the group we're going to talk about today where for one or both partners of a divorce, the relationship and past problems continue and in some cases become even more toxic then when they were married.  The sad part of this is for those with children.  Children have had enough to deal with through the divorce process and if even one of the divorced partners chooses to continue the fight, it's their kids that are forced to pay the price.

It's not always easy for a divorced single mom to make it financially, especially when their ex isn't paying child support or spousal support.

If you find yourself in a difficult financial situation after a divorce and need to provide for your family, there is help available.  You just need to know where to look.

In this program, our guest, Lindsay Blanche, talks about ways to provide for your family during tough financial times.  She knows this all to well, as a single mom of two.  After her divorce, her husband stopped paying child and spousal support.  Lindsay was forced to find ways to make ends meet and now shares her information with other single moms through her blog at www.grantsforsinglemother.org. 

This program helps single moms find help with food, housing, employment, health care, counseling and more.

We begin the New Year with a look back over the past decade on what's changed in the world and in the world of divorce as attorney Henry Gornbein shares his thoughts on the top ten divorce issues of the decade.  For more free programs on divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

The holidays can be a challenging time for families going through divorce. We have these images of perfect family holidays, yet your own family is coping with a situation that is anything but perfect. In this program, psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, provides advice to help get you through the holidays.

This Program Covers:

Dealing with ALL holidays including: Christmas, Hanukkah , Easter, Birthdays, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Graduations

How to deal with your feelings and emotions during this trying time

Understanding issues your children may be dealing with during the holiday season

Dividing parenting time between you and your ex

Tips for holiday parties and gatherings to ease the stress

Is it proper to begin dating around the holidays

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Divorce is never easy, and divorcing with children of any age makes it that much more difficult. 

Most information on divorce where children are involved is directed to families with younger children.  This program takes a look at the challenges of divorcing when your children are in their teens and twenties.

Psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and provides helpful insight for parents going through divorce with older children.

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How Custody Issues Change as Kids Grow Older, Dealing with Your Kids' Anger and Resentment, Co-Parenting, Understanding How your Kids are Feeling, Why Communicating with Your Ex is Critical, and more.

For more Free programs, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

In episode #16 of "Ask Henry" Henry Answers the following listener questions:

Mark from Chicago

Why do they have marital status on job application forms and do you have to check divorced if you are?

Sean from San Antonio

I've heard you should keep your divorce decree and that you may be asked for them to purchase a new car, home, life insurance issues and more. Is this true?

Jennifer from San Francisco

Can I change my mind about divorcing my spouse after I filed papers?

Laura from Jew Jersey

Can I change my restore my maiden name as part of or after the divorce the divorce?

Robert from Indianapolis

You did a show on The Divorce Than Never Ends. How do we keep ourselves mentally healthy during this process?  What specific advice can you provide on how not to let the constant attacks affect us as much?

Tom from Detroit

I'm a laid off auto worker and haven't worked for over a year.  My ex and I were married eighteen years and we don't have any kids.  It's not like I haven't been looking for a job, I have. Now my wife is taking me to court for spousal support I owe her according to the judge's orders.  My question is, how can I be expected to pay what I don't have? 

The Pecking Order, with Divorce Source Radio host Steve Peck, presents issues, events, past and future shows and is Steve's place to download his thoughts regarding divorce and life thereafter.

In this episode, Steve discusses the new Divorce Source Radio Facebook page and takes on the role of disc jockey as he plays songs that center around relationships and divorce with the thought of helping listeners connect with their true feelings.

Enjoy the music and look forward to a positive future!

Most people manage to get through a divorce and move on with their lives even though they may still have feelings of anger and hurt.

Then there's the individual who's anger and hurt has gotten the best of them and even though they are divorced, they feel the need to continually hurt their ex by talking down about them to others, or filing more legal motions long after the divorce and carrying their anger and hurt with them on a daily basis.  This type of personal is typically dealing with abandonment issues or a personality disorder that prevents them from moving on with their life. 

An if this personality type has children, their failing to see the damage they creating in their life  - because all they can focus on is themselves and the perceived injustice that was done to them that led to their divorce.  A healthy person realizes no one person is completely responsible for the failure in a marriage.

In today's with conversation with attorney Henry Gornbein, we'll take a look at the type of person who is unwilling to let go of past anger and through their actions, keeps their divorce alive forever.  We also provide tips on how to recognize the signs of this type of behavior and if you find yourself acting in this manner, we'll offer advice on how to turn your life around for the sake of you and your children.

Family Law Attorney Henry Gornbein answers a listener's phone-in question regarding his wife setting him up to meet with her when a PPO (Personal Protection Order) was in place and then turning him in for violating the PPO.  The caller is now facing jail time because of what he believes was a set-up.

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In this program, Family Law Attorney Henry Gornbein discusses going to trial for custody of a child with a disability.

You'll get a feel for how attorneys prepare for trial and learn what to look for in an attorney if your case is going before a judge.

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New communications technology has changed the way many divorce cases are tried these days.

Prior to the internet with its chat rooms and pornography, social media websites, such as Facebook, and cell phones with text messaging, proving a partner's infidelity or financial indiscretions was a difficult task.

Today, it's quite common during a divorce to subpoena the contents of a spouse's computer, cell phone records and text messages.  You've probably heard of politicians and celebrities being brought down, in part, by what was discovered in their email, text messages or internet browsing history.

In today's program, family law attorney, Henry Gornbein, and I discuss the fall-out of today's technology and address how the discovery of this information can affect a marriage and, ultimately, a divorce.

We'll take a look at this from a legal perspective pertaining to your right to privacy, and we'll provide strong advice regarding the use of this new communications medium during a divorce.

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In this episode, we address men who suffer depression and suicidal thoughts as a result of their inability to handle their divorce and not being able to see their children as much as they would like.

Our guest is Barry Guidera, General Manager of the Australian based Dads in Distress and we'll discuss how their organization reaches out and provides support for hurting fathers.  We'll also play an actual distress call from a suicidal father that was having a hard time dealing with his situation and you'll hear how Dads in Distress founder Tony Miller handled the situation.

If you are hurting and feeling depressed as a result of your current divorce situation, you'll learn that you're not alone and discover the urgent need to seek guidance and support to help get you through your tough time.

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In this episode of The Pecking Order on Divorce Source Radio, we'll discuss the unethical business practices of North Carolina Family Law Attorney, Lee Rosen.

Lee has improperly attached the Divorce Source Radio name to his own little podcast as a means of sucking our listeners to his podcast and to grow his family law practice.

Welcome Attorney Lee Rosen to our Hall of Shame!

Recently, we've been hearing a lot about celebrities in conflict with their wives or significant others.  Just when you thought the Charlie Sheen, Jesse James and Tiger Woods cases were little extreme, then comes Mel Gibson, and he trumps them all.

Mel is not alone with his over-the-top behavior, as unfortunately far too many men and women have been brought to unthinkable levels of insane behavior during a break-up.

In this program, psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg, family law attorney Henry Gornbein and I discuss the Mel Gibson saga from a legal and emotional perspective.  If any of you can hear some of your past behavior in Mel GIbson's rant, this show will provide some perspective on why you might have acted this way.

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Far too many divorcing couples get so caught up in the anger and drama of divorce that they forget what matters most...Our Kids!

Author and creator or the The Child Centered Divorce, Rosalind Sedacca, joins us and shares valuable insight on how to break the news to our children that mom and dad will no longer be living together.

One of the most difficult things to do after deciding you are getting a divorce is telling your children.  Rosalind's book, How Do I Tell The Kids about the Divorce? - A Create-A-Story Book Guide for Preparing Your Children - with Love!, addresses this issue in a unique way. 

 By adopting the principles outlined in The Child Centered Divorce, families stand a greater chance of raising healthy children and reducing future co-parenting problems by divorcing with dignity.  If you  are planning to divorce and haven't yet told your kids, this is a program you need to hear.

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"Ask Henry" Episode #14 asks the question: How do we divide real estate as part of our divorce during this down economy?

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Divorce Source Radio celebrates its 1st Anniversary with guests, attorney Henry Gornbein and psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg.

The show looks back on the past year and discusses:

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In this conversation with attorney, Henry Gornbein, we discuss what lessons can be learned from your divorce so that future relationships and possible remarriage will be more successfull for you and your children.

Topics in the program include:

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In episode #13 of "Ask Henry", a listener wonders if it is proper to introduce your children to a new love interest during your divorce or should you put this off.  If one partner is seeing another person and having their children over to the love interests home, is there anything that can be done to stop this from happening.

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Divorce Source Radio Host, Steve Peck, provides an audio blog of upcoming shows, resources and personal thoughts in this personal blog podcast.

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Episode #12 of "Ask Henry" features the question "What role does retirement play in my alimony payments?

In this conversation with Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, we discuss the trials and tribulations of getting your life back on track after divorce.

It's not easy starting a new life again.  In this program, we'll explore the Feelings, Hurt, Fear, Guilt and Betrayal, associated with divorce.  We address Parental Alienation issues, due in part, to a partner's own personal abandonment issues they faced as a child.  We'll also be discussing Parenting Issues such as How to Parent Your Child During Divorce.

And Finally, I ask Dr. Friedberg the ultimate question... What is Love? 

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"Ask Henry" #11 - How Can You Be Reasonable When Your Soon-to-Be Ex Won't?

"Ask Henry" Episode # 9 - What Happens if My House Has Negative Equity and I Want to Keep it? Will I receive credit as an offset against other assets?

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Are you being alienated from your children? Do you understand what Parental Alienation is and what do you do if you find yourself the targeted parent and your children torn from our life.

 Our show titled is named after the book A Family's Heartbreak - A parent's guide to parental alienation, and today I'm going to speak with the author, Michael Jeffries, to help families better understand Parental Alienation, and it affects.

The definition of parental alienation is heartbreakingly simple—one parent deliberately damages, and in some cases destroys, the previously healthy, loving relationship between the child and the child’s other parent.

Parental Alienation is harmful to our children's well being. I believe we can stop this destructive behavior if we can just recognize the warning signs and make a choice to not act this way. Get counseling to help work through issues of accepting your current situation and learn to move on to a healthier future. For more programs, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

"Ask Henry" #8 - If your Spouse had an Affair, Is it Possible to Sue The Lover for Breaking Up Your Marriage?

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Divorce is a challenging and extremely stressful situation. With so much emotion involved many of us make a few mistakes during our divorce. If these mistakes involve decisions regarding your children, they can irreparably sever relationships that are important in children's lives.

In this program, I'd like to introduce you to the role a Divorce Recovery Coach plays during a divorce. My guest is Shelley Stile, a certified Divorce Recovery / Life Coach.

Shelley helps her clients navigate the difficult emotional terrain of this massive life transition. She helps them to release negative emotional baggage from their past - and - their divorce and teaches skills to accept their present life with little or no regrets, blame or resentment.

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In episode #7 of "Ask Henry", attorney, Henry Gornbein, answers the question, "When Are Depositions and Interrogatories Useful During a Divorce?"

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Episode #7 of "Ask Henry" with Attorney, Henry Gornbein, asks the question "When are psychologial Evaluations used and what's their purpose?

Hear more full length programs on Psychologial Evaluations as well as othere free programs related to divorce on www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or on iTunes by searching "Divorce Source Radio".

In episode #6 of "Ask Henry", attorney, Henry Gornbein, answers the question, "Do I  have to pay spousal support?" (Also knwn as alimoney) He also answers the follow-up question, "What's the difference between modifiable and non-modifiable spousal support?"

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Millions of Americans are addicted to alcohol and /or prescription or illegal drugs.  If you or your spouse has suffered through an addiction during your marriage, this may present a challenge during your divorce.

Even if you're not an addict, you might be made to look like one as false claims could leveled against you as part of a bitter divorce.

So the question is, What do you do if you are an addict or falsely accused of being one during your divorce?

Divorce Source Radio legal correspondent, Henry Gornbein joins me in this program to provide insight on Substance Abuse and how it can affect your divorce.

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In episode #5 of "Ask Henry", renowned family law attorney, Henry Gornbein, answers the question " Must I continue paying the bills after moving out of the marital home?

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"Ask Henry" Question #4: Will my sex addiction play a role in my divorce?

Sex addiction is a problem that is sweeping the nation and one of the leading causes of marital conflict and divorce.

Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, Dr. Kenneth Adams, is our guest and discusses what we can do to recognize this behavior and what we need to do to seek help.

Topics in The Program Include:

Could You be a Sex Addict?

What causes someone to become addicted to sex?

How sex addiction affects relationships

What to do if you are the partner of a sex addict

The clues to look for that might indicate that you or your spouse are a sex addict

Available treatment options and much more.

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In the third episode of "Ask Henry", Henry answers the question, "Is it okay to date while going through my divorce"?

If you would like to ask Henry a question, phone our Listener Volicmail Line at (248) 686-2256.  TO hear more programs and listener questions, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.

In a past program, we looked in depth at what Parental Alienation is. In this program, psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, discusses the emotional toll parental alienation takes on the entire family and we discuss its cause and effect.

Topics in the program include:

Why someone would be an Alienating Parent

The role Personality Disorder Plays in Parental Alienation

The damage Parental Alienation does to children

What to do if you are being alienated

What to do if your child disowns you

How you can lose your right to custody if the court finds you to be an alienating parent.

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In this episode of "Ask Henry",  a listener asks the question, "Should I stay in my home during my divorce with my wife?"

If you would like to ask Henry a question, call (248) 686-2256 or send an email to DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com.  For more free audio programs on divorce, visit: www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. 

Deborah Moskovitch, is the author of The Smart Divorce and the creator and facilitator of The Smart Divorce consulting services. Deborah has appeared on national television and radio programs and presents The Smart Divorcee seminars and workshops throughout Canada and the U.S.

Learning The Smart Divorce process helps you move efficiently and effectively through the practicalities and process of divorce while significantly reducing the complexity, costs and time involved ending a marriage.

By providing the tools and strategies to make better informed decisions for you and your children, The Smart Divorce helps you move forward with focus, hope and confidence.

If you are considering divorce or just beginning the process, this is a MUST HEAR program!

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This clip is from the website Dads in Distress.  This show how desparate a father can be when he loses his family, to the point of suicide. FOr more information on Dads in Distress visit: http://www.dadsindistress.asn.au/index.html

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Research into family breakdown shows that more than one in three children never see their fathers again after their parents split up, and nearly one in ten is so traumatized by the separation that they have considered suicide.  Children are often used as 'emotional footballs' and are left feeling 'used, isolated and alone,' with many turning to alcohol and drugs.

A father's biggest fear during a divorce is what impact this will have on his children, and the possibility of actually losing custody, as well.  Many  people in our society don't see fathers' rights as important as mothers' rights.  Although there is a movement towards 50/50 custody in some states, very often, mothers end up winning custody of their children.  Children need both parents and fathers shouldn't be pushed out of their children's lives after a divorce.

This is the story of Chris Marshall, a father who has been fighting for years for the right to have a reasonable custody arrangement.  His legal nightmare has cost him tens of thousands of dollars, as well as a thirty day jail sentence. For more information, visit: www.DivoceSourceRadio.com

Domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or other abusive behavior per-perpetrated by an intimate partner against another. Domestic violence results in physical injury, psychological trauma, and sometimes death. The consequences of domestic violence can cross generations and truly last a lifetime.

Attorney, Henry Gornbein is our guest on Divorce Source Radio as we discuss, Domestic Violence against Women.

Topics in The Program Include:

How to recognize the signs of Domestic Violence

How abusers try to control their partner

The difference between Physical and Mental Abuse

How to plan a safe exit strategy

The role of a domestic violence Shelter

And where to seek help if you are an abuser

For more information and programs, visit: http://www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

Henry answers a listener question regarding 50/50 custody.

In America, a woman is beaten every 12 seconds.  One out of four women will be assaulted by a domestic partner, and male children exposed to domestic violence have a 700% greater chance of beating their female partners later in life.

Violence against women is wrong, and the only thing worse than this is to be Falsely Accused of violence against your wife or children when you've done nothing wrong, and this happens more than you might think.

Dean Tong, Nationally known forensic trial consultant and expert witness, helps protect the falsely accused and helps us better understand why someone might falsely accuse another of a crime they didn't commit.

Topics include:

What to do if False Claims are made against you in Protection Orders

Dealing with Child Protective Services and Law Enforcement if You Have Had False Allegations Made Against You

What to Look For When Selecting and Attorney

Understanding Your Rights

How Dean Tong Works to Clear His Client's Name of False Allegations

Thisis a story of how a once wonderful relationship ended up going horribly wrong.  After airing our program on Parental Alienation, we received an email from David Ball, a listener in Texas.  His story sounded so horrible and unbelievable that Steve Peck decided to follow up by phone to hear his side of the story.

David tells his story of how his relationship disintegrated into an ugly divorce, in which he ultimately had his daughter taken away from him by Child Protective Services (CPS). 

David feels he did nothing to warrant CPS and the court system taking his daughter away from him and feels his lawyers and the judge let him down in this case.  He has been financially devastated from legal expenses but plans to save what he can and continue the fight to win back the daughter he loves. 

Parental Alienation occurs during the timeframe of a divorce or a separation. This condition is identified when a child expresses UNJUSTIFIED HATRED or UNREASONABLE DISLIKE of a parent and aligns with the one parent they prefer. Parental Alienation makes a rejected parent's access and relationship with the child difficult or impossible to maintain.

Our guest, Joseph Goldberg, is founder of the CanadianSymposium for Parental Alienation Syndrome  (CSPAS).

Topics in the program include:

How to recognize a parental alienation problem with your child and what parents should be on the lookout for in identifying this problem

What are the psychological markers to help mental health professionals differentiate between a case of Real Abuse from cases of Real Parental Alienation?

Is PAS a mental illness?

Strategies used by alienating parents to consciously obstruct visitation with the non-favored parent

And much more...

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It used to be that courts would assist in dividing a couples assets during a divorce, but during these tough economic times, it seems like many couples are dividing debt. This program explores your options if you are considering bankruptcy before, during or after your divorce. Our guest is Bankruptcy Attorney, Douglas Kuthy.

Topics Include:

• What are the advantages and disadvantages of filing bankruptcy?

• Understand the different chapters of bankruptcy and decide which is the best option for you

• What happens if your spouse files for bankruptcy after your divorce?

• What to do if you are having a hard time making mortgage and credit card payments

• If your spouse files for bankruptcy, will it affect your spousal support or child custody payments?

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The Friend of The Court enforces court orders pertaining to custody, parenting time and child support.

In this program, we speak with Friend of The Court referee, Mark Sherbow to give you a better idea of the inner workings of the Friend of The Court system as it relates to divorce and child custody issues.

Topics in this program include:

- The role of a referee and how they work hand in hand with the judge to oversee your case.

- How Child Support Orders are reviewed and how referee's mediate child support petitions

- How a hearing works with a friend of the court referee

- What to do if you are paying child support and you lose your job

-  How hearing days work

- Key issues regarding custody and parenting time disputes

- How to prepare for your meeting with the friend of the court referee

Attorney Henry Gornbein and I interview  Judge James Alexander, a family court judge in Michigan, who helps us understand the court process as it relates to divorce and child custody issues.

Topics covered in this program include:

·         What types of cases a Family Court handles

·         How to prepare yourself for motions and/or your trial

·         Making sure your lawyer knows your case and is prepared to tell the judge exactly what you want

·        Identify if your attorney is a problem solver or a problem creator

·        You'll get a feel for a judge's case load and realize that you'll only have a few minutes to state your case on motion day.

·         And finally, well take an in-depth look at the misuse of Personal Protection Orders related to divorce cases.

Divorce can be challenging for heterosexual couples but for gay couples, the challenge can be even greater. One of the benefits of marriage is the ability to get divorced. But for gay couples, getting divorced can be even more complicated and costly. 
 
In this program, Attorney Henry Gornbein will discuss issues that affect married, “same sex” couples going through a divorce and we’ll show you ways to protect your partnership even if you aren’t legally married.
 
 Also discussed:

Is it a good idea to get married in a state that recognizes same sex marriage? What if you don’t live in that state, is it a good idea to establish residency so you can be legally married there?

Child custody issues during a "same sex" divorce.

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The holidays can be a challenging time for families going through divorce. We have these images of perfect family holidays, yet your own family is coping with a situation that is anything but perfect. In this program, psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, provides advice to help get you through the holidays.

This Program Covers:

Dealing with ALL holidays including: Christmas, Hanukkah , Easter, Birthdays, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Graduations

How to deal with your feelings and emotions during this trying time

Understanding issues your children may be dealing with during the holiday season

Dividing parenting time between you and your ex

Tips for holiday parties and gatherings to ease the stress

Is it proper to begin dating around the holidays

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If you're thinking about making a Prenuptial Agreement, it can be helpful to look at the most common advantages -- and challenges.  In this program, We'll show you how a "prenup" can:

- Protect your separate property
- Support your estate plan
- Define what property is considered marital or community property
- Reduce conflicts and save money if you divorce
- Clarify special agreements between you, and
- Establish ground rules for deciding future matters.

We also take a look at some solid premarital advice designed to strengthen your relationship prior to getting married.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

A high conflict divorce is never a good thing and is typically ramped up by the personalities involved.  During this type of divorce, a war is created that is costly and damaging to the children and the divorcing couples.

In this program Dr. Larry Friedberg explains the differences between the friendly divorce, the business-like divorce and the high conflict divorce.

You will also gain insight into why couples go this path and learn how a partner with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder adds fuel to the fire in a high conflict situation.

Finally, we have some suggestions to circumvent this path that can save you and your family a lot of grief.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

The primary purpose and main focus of the custody evaluation is to determine what is in the best interests of the child.  A competent assessment will include a skilled clinical interview and history of the family dynamics.

Generally one parent doesn’t win and the other parent lose custody.  Rather, each parent's role with the children may be outlined, and as a result, one may get to spend more time or less time with the children.

Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and he explains the custody evaluation process during this program.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com 

In a past program, we explored how mediation and collaborative law are helping divorcing couples maintain control over their lives as opposed to going to trial, where a stranger will make decisions for you.In this program, we’ll show you how mediation and collaborative law can differ from state to state.  Divorce Source Radio Legal correspondent, Henry Gornbein and I had the chance to speak with Southern California attorney, Sondra BenNaEim to discuss the difference between mediation in Michigan  and California.In the program, you’ll learn more about the process of mediation and how it can reduce stress and conflict during your divorce. We’ll discuss how the economy is affecting divorce, and you’ll learn why it is beneficial for both parties to consider mediation and collaborative law over a traditional trial.www.So-Cal-Attorney.com

When your divorce is completed, it will be time to pick up the pieces and move on with your life.  This program features advice on rebuilding your life from one of the nation’s leading psychologists, Dr. Larry Friedberg.This program will delve into all aspects of starting your new life including:
- Moving into your new home or apartment
- How to spend quality time with your children and prepare them for their new living arrangements
- The concerns of providing for two households on half the income
- Learn why you shouldn’t hang on to your anger and be a martyr to your marriage

And as for moving on with new relationships, we’ll discuss:
- Why it might be a good idea to rediscover yourself before entering into a new relationship
- Learn how to not marry the same type of person you just divorced
- How not to fantasize that your new relationship will be perfect
- Recognize that you still may feel unhappy after becoming involved in a new relationship because you haven't properly dealt with the grief of your divorceRemember, divorce affects your kids, too, regardless of their age. We’ll discuss ways of helping them understand your divorce, and we’ll show you how to introduce your new love interest to your kids.

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In this program, we discuss the difference between Real Property and Personal Property; we’ll look at residential and commercial real estate holdings. And if you own a business, you’ll learn how businesses are valued and dealt with during a divorce.

We'll also discuss how Boats, planes, cars, furnishings, Stock Assets, Pensions, collectibles, and Inheritance come into play when dividing property.
 
Show Guest: Attorney, Henry Gornbein

When you have children and your ex remarries or becomes involved with someone, there are plenty of adjustments that need to be made beyond new living arrangements.“Life After Divorce – Step Parenting Issues”, discusses:  If its proper for your kids to call their new stepparent mom or dad. – We’ll talk about The role of disciplining your child by a stepparent,  and going to find ways to communicate with your ex’s new spouse or partner.  Most importantly we’re going to show you how to remain an important part of your Child's life.Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest for this program.  For more information visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

When many of us embark on divorce, it’s anything but civil.  Anger can create the "win at any cost" mentality.  If the attorney representing you is overly litigious, you may find yourself on the expensive path of hearings and a trial, and in the end, will you really come out ahead?  You have to weigh the financial and mental cost of this path against what you expect to gain.  Relationships will be torn farther apart, anger will be raised to a new high and if you have children, how will this fallout affect them?

This program will discuss:

- How to size up your attorney and not let them inflame your divorce with unnecessary anger and litigation.

- How unscrupulous attorneys over sell their clients with false hope and promises. 

- How to keep the peace in a divorce.

- The Do’s and Don’ts of a divorce.

For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

Surviving Divorce explores the five stages of anger and grief as it relates to a divorce. The five stages of divorce are: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression/Pain, Acceptance/Recovery.

It's harder to get over a divorce than the death of a loved one.  Learn ways to cope with your hurt, anger and pain and discover how to come out the other side of divorce a healthy and happy person.

This is a "Must Hear" program for anyone experiencing the emotional pain of divorce.  For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Preparing for a divorce trial is somewhat like staging a dramatic play but with you and your spouse as the reluctant stars.  The witnesses who take the stand are your supporting or not so supporting actors.

A divorce Trial should be your last resort after attempts of mediation or alternate dispute resolution have failed. 

Attorney and family law expert, Henry Gornbein, explains the necessary steps of preparing yourself for a successful divorce trial.  If your divorce is headed towards a trial, this is the program you need to hear.

For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

How do lawyers and psychologists work together when child custody is an issue and in a divorce with a high level of conflict?

Psychologist Dr. Larry Friedberg and attorney Henry Gornbein are guests and discuss:

Counseling for high conflict couples for the sake of the children. -  How to set up a communications protocol with high conflict couples. - Does the conflict end after re-marriage? - Learn how to not re-marry the same type of person you are divorcing. - Is taking your children to counseling a good or bad idea? - How to stay away from “shark” attorneys who want to litigate and save money and relationships by pre-packaging your divorce. - Create a plan for an amicable divorce.  www.DivorceSourceRadio.com. 

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If you’ve decided to separate or get a divorce and have children, your next important decision should be about co-parenting.  Divorce may be the end of a marriage, but it is not the end of the family.  People who separate but continue to work cooperatively as parents give their children the best chances for a smooth adjustment to living in two separate households and continued growth.

Psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg shows us ways to communicate with your ex without hostility for the good of your children. Learn how to:Be respectful of your ex spouse. Resolve conflicts and discuss major issues privately, not in front of the children. Not confide, complain or grumble about your ex to your kids – you need family, friends or a therapist for that role. Not use our kids as messengers between you and the other parent. Assure our kids that both parents will listen to feelings and address needs cooperatively.

Divorce is a complex and traumatic experience for most people.  The so called “simple” divorce is all too rare.

Although most divorces don’t end up in a trial, there are alternatives to an acrimonious and combative divorce.

On this program, we take a look at ways to get you through the divorce process with less stress and come out the other side with less animosity towards your ex. 

Attorney, Henry Gornbein, discusses Alternate Dispute Resolution.  Learn how Facilitative Mediation and Collaborative Law can be a viable option to a traditional divorce and help couples retain control over their lives.  

If children are involved, keeping a harmonious relationship after divorce should be one of primary concerns and ADR offers a means of maintaining an amicable relationship with your ex as opposed to doing battle and growing further apart  during a litigious traditional divorce.

For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com

Divorce is difficult on children at any age.  The psychological effects of divorce on children are more extreme when they’re forced to endure a long, drawn-out custody battle. These children suffer from a variety of psychological problems like denial, guilt, low self-esteem, physical problems, depression, anger, panic, destructive or even criminal behavior.

Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and discusses ways to help your children through your divorce. You will learn: How to tell your children about your divorce, How to help them with their shared living arrangements and Find ways to make this an easier transition for the entire family.

For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

Dealing with child custody and visitation is one of the most difficult aspects of getting divorced.  Divorce and child custody cases are often sensitive and emotional matters.

In this program, we’ll discuss The different types of child custody, child support, and visitation.  Attorney, Henry Gornbein, will explain how you can step back from your anger and do what’s in the best interest of your children.  Henry also emphasizes not wasting your your financial resources through unnecessary litigation.  

Henry explains how to have a "game-plan" and provides a step-by-step guide to prepare you for your divorce and child custody case.   This is a very important program for anyone divorcing with children. Visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com for more information.

The second episode of Divorce Source Radio explores the emotional side of divorce.

Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages.

Renowned  psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities.

For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com.  For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at DivorceSourceRadio@gmail.com